hey all,
I joined this forum to try to learn about Christianity primarily because my gf is a Christian. I have read a few books out of the bible so far, and been to church a few times. I was raised nonreligious, have mostly nonbeliever friends etc...
Well, by the power of anonymity I am going to ask for advice/feedback about this situation. When I first got together with my gf she told me she couldn't marry an unbeliever, she also wasn't cool with sex outside of marriage. As time went on, aside from our religious differences, we clicked very very well. Although sometimes hesitant about our relationship because of the religion divide, we fell in love. We also slipped on her standard, and now she is pregnant (she deeply regrets letting that go). While we are considering the situation, confronting family and all this, I'd like to make the situation as best as possible for her. If I could just convert, I'd do it, but I won't lie to her if I don't really believe.
Anyway, if there is anything else anyone could suggest that I do or look into etc., that'd be great. I feel a little lost about how to make anything better here.
I joined this forum to try to learn about Christianity primarily because my gf is a Christian. I have read a few books out of the bible so far, and been to church a few times. I was raised nonreligious, have mostly nonbeliever friends etc...
Well, by the power of anonymity I am going to ask for advice/feedback about this situation. When I first got together with my gf she told me she couldn't marry an unbeliever, she also wasn't cool with sex outside of marriage. As time went on, aside from our religious differences, we clicked very very well. Although sometimes hesitant about our relationship because of the religion divide, we fell in love. We also slipped on her standard, and now she is pregnant (she deeply regrets letting that go). While we are considering the situation, confronting family and all this, I'd like to make the situation as best as possible for her. If I could just convert, I'd do it, but I won't lie to her if I don't really believe.
Anyway, if there is anything else anyone could suggest that I do or look into etc., that'd be great. I feel a little lost about how to make anything better here.