Against faith and confusion??

[Charlotte Kathryn]

Support needed...

I am normally a person who can be a listening ear but extra support needed..

A friend of mine is married to a man, has older children, and grandchildren.. She is christian, has a strong faith and a high belief in God...
However, she has come to me with the following:
She may have feelings for a younger female...

How do i approach this and help my friend?

 

[2PhiloVoid]

Support needed...

I am normally a person who can be a listening ear but extra support needed..

A friend of mine is married to a man, has older children, and grandchildren.. She is christian, has a strong faith and a high belief in God...
However, she has come to me with the following:
She may have feelings for a younger female...

How do i approach this and help my friend?

....maybe, very gently and quietly, suggest to her that IF she acts upon those seeming feelings she has for that other female, she stands to lose a whole lot, in multiple ways. And the resulting feelings that she may then feel---that is, those that can come with the destruction of one's own fidelity to family, friends and God---could have some irreversible affects not only upon all of those other people, but upon herself as well. She will do herself a favor to take this into account.

Also, maybe suggest to her that she find some qualified Christian Psychological counseling ... and I'm not talking about counseling from the local church pastor, especially not from the kind of pastor who will do, or can do, nothing more than toss various scriptures at her ears.

 

[Michie]

Support needed...

I am normally a person who can be a listening ear but extra support needed..

A friend of mine is married to a man, has older children, and grandchildren.. She is christian, has a strong faith and a high belief in God...
However, she has come to me with the following:
She may have feelings for a younger female...

How do i approach this and help my friend?

So your friend is an older Christian man that has feelings for a younger woman?

 

[Charlotte Kathryn]

So your friend is an older Christian man that has feelings for a younger woman?

older female!

 

[Michie]

older female!

Oh geeze! I’m sorry I read that wrong. I guess my first question is to ask her if she has experienced this before. Is she gay or bisexual?