Lys Nogales
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I totally understand your situation, I grew up for 18 years in one church- my family grew up with it and I loved the fellowship and worship there- it definitely set up my foundation in Christ and equipped me with sound doctrine and knowledge of the bible. Ministry and mission work has always been important to me and I used all the chances I found to go on and support local missions. When I turned 20 and moved in my my childhood best friend, she had just started going to this new church at a local christian college and invited me to attend with her- and I found that I really enjoyed it. It was small (40-50 people, mostly young families and older couples, as well as college-age young adults) and they were very mission focused, energetic, and connection based. I found a new family there. Sorry for the long story, in essence to say that the church that we grow up in is not always the church you have to stay in forever. I still attend some Wednesday night services at my old church and my family is completely supportive of my decision to branch out. So I'd say start cutting back in your responsibilities at your current church and maybe just try out this new church to see if it is a good fit for you then you can pray over it and see if that's the path God wants you to take. I'll be praying for your decision!Long story ahead, so buckle up.
I am currently attending a church founded and operated by my grandparents. The church has about 40-50 regular members, and I have grown up here. (I'm currently 21.) Starting a couple years ago, I started to feel lonely at the church. At least 90% of church attenders are 40 and over, and there's no one around my age. I really don't have anyone that I am close to. Not that they aren't nice and caring people, but the church community that I feel like I need just isn't there. I'm involved in basically everything at church and feel like I try to socialize with others, but I just don't feel a strong connection.
What complicates this even more is that I am currently the church's choir director and the pianist. I'm carrying a large load right now, and it gives me a lot of anxiety and stress. While I believe that I could be replaced without too much issue, I'm worried that things would just get awful for my family when trying to understand with my stepping down, much less leaving their church.
I've been invited to a church in the past with some college students and other people that I know, and they have many opportunities to serve in the church and in the community. I think I would like going there, but I hate to feel like I'm turning into a church shopper.
So my question is, should I stay with this church or should I look for another church?
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