- Jan 11, 2018
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- Country
- United States
- Faith
- Anglican
- Marital Status
- Married
I am a young (30’s) associate pastor at a small church with a senior pastor in his mid to late 60’s. Though the church is small, has no other young families or kids, and has shown no interest in growing over the last 3 years, My family has stayed because the community was good and it was a wonderful place to learn the ropes. However, lately the senior pastor will not return my phone calls or texts even when their are things that need to be discussed. It was only a mild annoyance, but recently my wife had surgery and ended up in the ER/hospital for two days. Neither before the surgery, after it, or during the time at the ER did my senior pastor bother to call, text, or visit my wife and I to pray or offer support. In fact I even messaged him several times letting him know how things were going only to get no response. There are several other odd things like his wife only showing up to service once a month an so forth which are cumulatively concerning me. Anyone have any thoughts or advice on this issue and how you would handle it? He was a Navy captain and a bit of a micromanager so he does not handle direct confrontation very well.