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I strongly advise against "missionary dating" (you've said you are already not inclined to do so, which is good, imho).
In general, marry someone for who she is now, not for who you hope she'll become. If you want an Orthodox wife and to raise children in the Orthodox faith, then marry someone who is Orthodox. And if you are not going to marry someone who is not Orthodox, then do not date someone who is not Orthodox, or even entertain that as a feasible possibility. And the same goes for many other criteria. If you know that you want a big family, for example, then do not date someone who doesn't also want a big family. Etc.
Something that has worked for many people is to visit a monastery that has a lot of pilgrims visiting regularly. Talk to the abbott about your desire to find a good wife. There is a good chance that many ladies have expressed to him the desire to find a husband.
In general, marry someone for who she is now, not for who you hope she'll become. If you want an Orthodox wife and to raise children in the Orthodox faith, then marry someone who is Orthodox. And if you are not going to marry someone who is not Orthodox, then do not date someone who is not Orthodox, or even entertain that as a feasible possibility. And the same goes for many other criteria. If you know that you want a big family, for example, then do not date someone who doesn't also want a big family. Etc.
Something that has worked for many people is to visit a monastery that has a lot of pilgrims visiting regularly. Talk to the abbott about your desire to find a good wife. There is a good chance that many ladies have expressed to him the desire to find a husband.
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