~Anastasia~
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It might work out well to meet someone and them convert. But I wouldn't make it my top suggestion if it was my life. Unless you happen to meet someone and fall in love and find they are interested in converting.
There is much to be praised in an Orthodox ethos. And some of that seems to come in a unique way over time - often in a special way to cradles. I've known more than one bishop to recommend a convert marry a cradle because they complement each other in unique ways, fwiw. If it happened to come about that way, there are benefits from what I've seen and been told.
I would pray, and keep seeking. Parishes are notoriously not the best place to meet a spouse, it seems. We have only a few marriageable single people at our parish who match each other in commitment level. My goddaughter is moving partly for this reason (mostly for other reasons) but the one young man who might be suitable for her in that way is too much younger at their ages. (In 5 years it wouldn't matter.) The other young men aren't committed enough to keep her interest. (You're just about old enough, I could introduce you two lol! She's a very sweet and lovely young lady but with just enough fire in her temperament when needed ... )
Seriously though, I think it's a good idea to branch out and meet people from other places. Any retreats, or gatherings, OCMC, IOCC, OCF. I don't know anything about it, but a couple of weeks ago I heard an ad during a podcast on AFR for a website by the name of "Orthodox and single" which I think is free to join. There's something of a presence on FB of many parishes and ministries. (I don't recommend 99% of Orthodox FB groups though.)
There are lots of avenues. And because we (Orthodox) are few and far between, if you're doing the legwork yourself, you should probably plan to explore at least several of them.
Then again I agree with prodromos - St. Xenia has done wonders for me. I would certainly ask her to pray for you, if it were me.
There is much to be praised in an Orthodox ethos. And some of that seems to come in a unique way over time - often in a special way to cradles. I've known more than one bishop to recommend a convert marry a cradle because they complement each other in unique ways, fwiw. If it happened to come about that way, there are benefits from what I've seen and been told.
I would pray, and keep seeking. Parishes are notoriously not the best place to meet a spouse, it seems. We have only a few marriageable single people at our parish who match each other in commitment level. My goddaughter is moving partly for this reason (mostly for other reasons) but the one young man who might be suitable for her in that way is too much younger at their ages. (In 5 years it wouldn't matter.) The other young men aren't committed enough to keep her interest. (You're just about old enough, I could introduce you two lol! She's a very sweet and lovely young lady but with just enough fire in her temperament when needed ... )
Seriously though, I think it's a good idea to branch out and meet people from other places. Any retreats, or gatherings, OCMC, IOCC, OCF. I don't know anything about it, but a couple of weeks ago I heard an ad during a podcast on AFR for a website by the name of "Orthodox and single" which I think is free to join. There's something of a presence on FB of many parishes and ministries. (I don't recommend 99% of Orthodox FB groups though.)
There are lots of avenues. And because we (Orthodox) are few and far between, if you're doing the legwork yourself, you should probably plan to explore at least several of them.
Then again I agree with prodromos - St. Xenia has done wonders for me. I would certainly ask her to pray for you, if it were me.
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