- May 13, 2020
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- Country
- United States
- Faith
- Baptist
- Marital Status
- Separated
First of all, I will apologize for the long post. I have just exhausted all my possibilities, I’m hoping just one person reads this post and says “that’s me, I was there.” A little over 21 months ago I received a text from my wife sating she was leaving me. About 2 days later my journey started. God convicted me on a back, dirt road (someday I would love to give my testimonial titled with that). Anyways, I was saved at the age of 9 and was a tiptoe Christian until that road, 38 years later. I a had to change, I needed to change.
My focus was on me, I only tried to focus on my sins, short comings, etc. I read every morning, prayed all day, found a church home, witnessed, etc. One of the things I prayEd for was reconciliation of my marriage. I tried to take the Christian route, my wife, her lawyer, my lawyer did not take the same route. The last 21 months have been hell for me. I just took it, figured it was my penance or allowing me to grow.
The more I grew the more questions I had. Some days the more doubts I had. I always went back to prayer, to the Bible. Long ago I prayed for the Lord to change my heart and my mind. To think of Him and holy things instead of anger, bitterness, depression, etc. unfortunately that has yet to happen. My idle moments are nothing but angry thoughts, how bad things are and also how bad things may end up when it is finally complete. Depression, sadness and fear is just as equal.
Here is where I am. Why will god not answer my prayers. Would I love another chance of marriage, to be able to see my son everyday, not just half? Sure, but maybe that is not in His plan. It kills me but I accept it. I have prayed to somehow feel His presence, it has also been ignored. Maybe that was selfish also. What is killing me, my walk and some days has me on the verge of walking away is how He has not answered my Prayers concerning my heart and mind. Those aren’t selfish!! I need him, my mind needs a break!! I so so so seek him in my heart. I have followed every positive action I think of in order to help change my heart and relieve my mind, to no avail.
What is left, is 21 months not long enough? I am not Job, nor David. Have you been there? What happened to you? Is there hope? Thanks for anyone’s input
My focus was on me, I only tried to focus on my sins, short comings, etc. I read every morning, prayed all day, found a church home, witnessed, etc. One of the things I prayEd for was reconciliation of my marriage. I tried to take the Christian route, my wife, her lawyer, my lawyer did not take the same route. The last 21 months have been hell for me. I just took it, figured it was my penance or allowing me to grow.
The more I grew the more questions I had. Some days the more doubts I had. I always went back to prayer, to the Bible. Long ago I prayed for the Lord to change my heart and my mind. To think of Him and holy things instead of anger, bitterness, depression, etc. unfortunately that has yet to happen. My idle moments are nothing but angry thoughts, how bad things are and also how bad things may end up when it is finally complete. Depression, sadness and fear is just as equal.
Here is where I am. Why will god not answer my prayers. Would I love another chance of marriage, to be able to see my son everyday, not just half? Sure, but maybe that is not in His plan. It kills me but I accept it. I have prayed to somehow feel His presence, it has also been ignored. Maybe that was selfish also. What is killing me, my walk and some days has me on the verge of walking away is how He has not answered my Prayers concerning my heart and mind. Those aren’t selfish!! I need him, my mind needs a break!! I so so so seek him in my heart. I have followed every positive action I think of in order to help change my heart and relieve my mind, to no avail.
What is left, is 21 months not long enough? I am not Job, nor David. Have you been there? What happened to you? Is there hope? Thanks for anyone’s input