- Dec 18, 2017
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Hi there,
I am keen to understand the role of Grand Dad and this may vary depending on culture.
I am coming unstuck when confronting my two grand chidren about behaviours that I feel are inappropriate in our house when they come to stay.
I am being told that to be confrontational is inappropriate and that the Holy Spirit is always gentle. There is apparently no place for a stern word.
It seems that todays approach to raising children varies greatly from what I am familiar with.
This is further complicated by the fact that our Govt. passed a law against smacking which has meant parents have to fall back on psychological manipulation, 'time out' etc.
This generation of children are very entitled as a result.
I do work hard on developing relationships of trust and in general things are sweet.
Sadly, however, a word of correction results in my being considered somewhat of a villian.
Maybe my manner is the problem but I fail to see any issue scripturally with being firm.
Help...
I am keen to understand the role of Grand Dad and this may vary depending on culture.
I am coming unstuck when confronting my two grand chidren about behaviours that I feel are inappropriate in our house when they come to stay.
I am being told that to be confrontational is inappropriate and that the Holy Spirit is always gentle. There is apparently no place for a stern word.
It seems that todays approach to raising children varies greatly from what I am familiar with.
This is further complicated by the fact that our Govt. passed a law against smacking which has meant parents have to fall back on psychological manipulation, 'time out' etc.
This generation of children are very entitled as a result.
I do work hard on developing relationships of trust and in general things are sweet.
Sadly, however, a word of correction results in my being considered somewhat of a villian.
Maybe my manner is the problem but I fail to see any issue scripturally with being firm.
Help...