I want to say first off that I'm 17, and I have a great relationship with God. I don't date, drink, smoke, do drugs or any of that. It seems like I'm always at church. I love being there. I started going to this church late February of this year. I have recently discovered that I am a natural flirt, or as everyone tells me I am. I never ever ever try to flirt intentionally. I guess I'm just really loud, outgoing and crack jokes and teases all the time, and that gets interpreted as being flirty. Also apparently I'm extremely attractive too (dispite my insecurities) which doesn't help. I can't make male friends because they all think I'm into them, and everyone watching thinks we're freaking dating so then gossip starts about what a [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] I am even though I'm a virgin. The gossip at churches is unbareable... All the girls hate me. I don't know what to do? My one guy friend said to my sister that I move sexually, like I hair flip, and I sway my hips when I walk. What the heck? I don't even consciously know I'm doing these things and I want to stop. How do I stop being naturally flirty? I don't want to be a boring person, and I finally feel like I'm being fully myself in public but ever since I've been comfortable with who I am everyone's bashing me... which is making it really hard for me. Knowing everyone is gossiping about me, my one guy friend who I had to tell off because he was getting too clingy started spreading lies about me... All the girls avoid me... I don't know what to do!!! Advice please...