I just want to say that Jesus is with you on this. I know the hurt, been there myself on the receiving end of an unfaithful spouse ending in divorce at her request. In time you heal, you really really do. And you move on in life.
Let's pray: God be with you and bring Jesus peace, and that ministering of the Holy Spirit be upon you and your children. Jesus say's that He is sufficient for our needs, let's trust in Him now like we never have before, let's trust that provision in supplied for you and your children's needs. Let this bring strength and wisdom, increasing daily. Let it be understood that it is the evil one who brings on this sort of destruction. That it is he who creeps in on those who hurt us. We ask protection that the whole armor of God is upon you in every one of your steps moving forward, in the name of Jesus Christ we pray all of this. Amen