- Aug 13, 2021
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- Country
- United Kingdom
- Faith
- Christian
- Marital Status
- Single
I recently had a baby out of wedlock with someone who was interested in the faith but hasnt quite come through to discipleship yet
during the relationship I was abusive (emotionally not physically), im currently working with professionals on those patterns
there is a scripture that says "Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever."
however since me and the mother are seperated there is no household, she is the one who ended the relationship and so the responsibility for the breakdown of the household falls on her
I have considered paying financial maintenence to her and choosing to not meet the baby for various reasons, would this constitute abandoning her? my thoughts are that if the mother wants her daughter to have a father, she must get back together with me and marry me
during the relationship I was abusive (emotionally not physically), im currently working with professionals on those patterns
there is a scripture that says "Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever."
however since me and the mother are seperated there is no household, she is the one who ended the relationship and so the responsibility for the breakdown of the household falls on her
I have considered paying financial maintenence to her and choosing to not meet the baby for various reasons, would this constitute abandoning her? my thoughts are that if the mother wants her daughter to have a father, she must get back together with me and marry me