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Because of our post modern culture, which is leavened with feminism, relativism, and biblical skepticism many Christians doubt that God has given the husband authority over his wife in marriage. It is one of the most politically incorrect issues out there, and there is a vast machinery out there to fight this idea. The spiritual reason it is opposed so loudly is because it is an attack on the heart of the family itself. If you can destroy the order God created you are opening a door for another order to come in and corrupt what God intended. We can see the bad fruit of this with the divorce rate in the church being at an all time high.
I am going to examine three verses which I believe sum up the whole issue:
Ephesians 5:22-24
22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything
So, what is this talking about? The first thing that should catch your eye is that the role of the husband is contrasted with the Lord Jesus Christ three times, once per verse. That was shocking to me when I first read it.
How are they contrasted?
In verse 22 wives submit as the church submits to Christ
In verse 23 husbands are the head just as Jesus is the head
In verse 24 wives are to be subject in everything as the church is to the Lord
The difficulty of these passages is not understanding what they are saying, it is believing them contrary to what society has taught you. To see what they mean we just need to ask some basic questions.
How does the church submit to Christ?
What does it mean that Jesus is the head of the church?
How is the church subjected to Christ in everything?
The answer to those questions will tell you exactly how the wife should behave which is the entire key to understanding those scriptures. The ridiculous explanations that people come up with to ignore the obvious here is startling. So, we aren't going to be debating those things in this thread. Instead, I want people to answer those three questions because if we can figure out what they mean then we have the answer. Here they are again:
How does the church submit to Christ?
What does it mean that Jesus is the head of the church?
How is the church subjected to Christ in everything?
Please answer these so we can figure out the role of the wife in a marriage relationship.
I am going to examine three verses which I believe sum up the whole issue:
Ephesians 5:22-24
22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything
So, what is this talking about? The first thing that should catch your eye is that the role of the husband is contrasted with the Lord Jesus Christ three times, once per verse. That was shocking to me when I first read it.
How are they contrasted?
In verse 22 wives submit as the church submits to Christ
In verse 23 husbands are the head just as Jesus is the head
In verse 24 wives are to be subject in everything as the church is to the Lord
The difficulty of these passages is not understanding what they are saying, it is believing them contrary to what society has taught you. To see what they mean we just need to ask some basic questions.
How does the church submit to Christ?
What does it mean that Jesus is the head of the church?
How is the church subjected to Christ in everything?
The answer to those questions will tell you exactly how the wife should behave which is the entire key to understanding those scriptures. The ridiculous explanations that people come up with to ignore the obvious here is startling. So, we aren't going to be debating those things in this thread. Instead, I want people to answer those three questions because if we can figure out what they mean then we have the answer. Here they are again:
How does the church submit to Christ?
What does it mean that Jesus is the head of the church?
How is the church subjected to Christ in everything?
Please answer these so we can figure out the role of the wife in a marriage relationship.