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This thread is asking the ladies a question. Athough, I will accept feedback and/or advice from men as well.
During my Halloween Cruise,our Cruise Leader,when she advertises,always points out that our cruises are for singles looking for friendships, for like minded singles, that like to travel.This company is not a dating service. And,one should not attend the cruises hoping to find "The One"
But,during the last night on the seven night cruise,at our private function,she honored eleven couples,who are married,and some who are now in a relationship, that met during our cruises,as "Success Stories". Now ladies,during this mix message,does that mean that I am a failure?
I do admit that I have made some positive connections with some ladies on the six single cruises that I have been on. But they all live out of California.For example,the lady pictured with me likes me. After a cocktail party,I asked a lady out to dinner.She just ignored me. As I was leaving to head for the buffett,she approached me and asked me out to dinner! I was going to ask her out. But, she "beat me to the punch." I was surprised and accepted her invitation. I then asked myself,"Why can't I find a friendly, an intelligent, woman like this in California?
She told me that she really appreciated the fact that I was the first man to ask her to dance,as she was dancing all by herself,when I first met her.
But,during the last night,she "Friend Zoned "me. She said it was because,I was eleven years older than her. And the fact she lives in Canada.
I have heard married women also tell me that I am a sweet,wonderful man. I never smoked, dranked(therefore not an alcoholic),took illegal drugs(not a drug addict),never been arrested, and never been in jail. But,I am just not good enough to attract a woman, whom I am interested in.
So,you can tell me the truth,ladies. My picture is enclosed. Am I really ugly? If not,since I have so many things going for me in life,why I fail to attract someone,who has a lot going for her,the same as I do? Now,last Monday night,during Formal Night,when I was wearing my tuxedo,many women came up to me and told me how handsome I looked. I thanked them. But,my only problem is,that I cannot wear my tux to church, and/or to the store where I go grocery shopping. Also,when a woman tells me that I am "nice man",are they code words that means she thinks that I might be good in bed? I have heard woman say that they want a nice man .I have heard many women tell me, "S…….. you are a nice man." But,I have yet to her a woman say to me,"S…….you are a nice man. And I want you!"
That is why I think and/or feel,that I am a romantic failure. I have been a successful Scientist. I have been in a couple of movies.I was in a commercial with a famous basketball player .And, I have traveled the world.I have done things that millions of people,including myself,have dreamed about.
But,I do not know how to "verbally seduce " a woman whom I am interested in.
During my Halloween Cruise,our Cruise Leader,when she advertises,always points out that our cruises are for singles looking for friendships, for like minded singles, that like to travel.This company is not a dating service. And,one should not attend the cruises hoping to find "The One"
But,during the last night on the seven night cruise,at our private function,she honored eleven couples,who are married,and some who are now in a relationship, that met during our cruises,as "Success Stories". Now ladies,during this mix message,does that mean that I am a failure?
I do admit that I have made some positive connections with some ladies on the six single cruises that I have been on. But they all live out of California.For example,the lady pictured with me likes me. After a cocktail party,I asked a lady out to dinner.She just ignored me. As I was leaving to head for the buffett,she approached me and asked me out to dinner! I was going to ask her out. But, she "beat me to the punch." I was surprised and accepted her invitation. I then asked myself,"Why can't I find a friendly, an intelligent, woman like this in California?
She told me that she really appreciated the fact that I was the first man to ask her to dance,as she was dancing all by herself,when I first met her.
But,during the last night,she "Friend Zoned "me. She said it was because,I was eleven years older than her. And the fact she lives in Canada.
I have heard married women also tell me that I am a sweet,wonderful man. I never smoked, dranked(therefore not an alcoholic),took illegal drugs(not a drug addict),never been arrested, and never been in jail. But,I am just not good enough to attract a woman, whom I am interested in.
So,you can tell me the truth,ladies. My picture is enclosed. Am I really ugly? If not,since I have so many things going for me in life,why I fail to attract someone,who has a lot going for her,the same as I do? Now,last Monday night,during Formal Night,when I was wearing my tuxedo,many women came up to me and told me how handsome I looked. I thanked them. But,my only problem is,that I cannot wear my tux to church, and/or to the store where I go grocery shopping. Also,when a woman tells me that I am "nice man",are they code words that means she thinks that I might be good in bed? I have heard woman say that they want a nice man .I have heard many women tell me, "S…….. you are a nice man." But,I have yet to her a woman say to me,"S…….you are a nice man. And I want you!"
That is why I think and/or feel,that I am a romantic failure. I have been a successful Scientist. I have been in a couple of movies.I was in a commercial with a famous basketball player .And, I have traveled the world.I have done things that millions of people,including myself,have dreamed about.
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