I've noticed that a lot of American Christian girls with Christian parents, especially if their not from New York, LA etc that I know in real life resent that they have to work prior to marriage and see being a SAHM as an ideal to look up to. Some of them get really po'd when they marry and realise that they need to work for a couple of years until the first kid comes along (and often after that too).
On the other hand most Christian girls from the UK assume that they will need to work during the marriage.
Part of it is prob cultural. My mum was a SAHM but my dad was a pastor and had a free house. Lots of people my age didn't have SAHM, and most of my freinds who are married, even in their 30's have both parents working... basically, to buy a house you need two incomes in the UK nowadays, whereas in the States you don't always (ie Welshman's story of the very nice house in America costing £250,000. You'd get an awful place for that in the UK... plus you'd need a US$40.5k deposit and be earning US$68,000 to get a mortage on it)...
Part of the reason is that male incomes in the UK having been falling in real terms since the 1970's and they now compete with 100% more people since most woman work. Basically unless you earn way over the national average in the UK (US$40,000) you need to be in a dual income house.
On the other hand most Christian girls from the UK assume that they will need to work during the marriage.
Part of it is prob cultural. My mum was a SAHM but my dad was a pastor and had a free house. Lots of people my age didn't have SAHM, and most of my freinds who are married, even in their 30's have both parents working... basically, to buy a house you need two incomes in the UK nowadays, whereas in the States you don't always (ie Welshman's story of the very nice house in America costing £250,000. You'd get an awful place for that in the UK... plus you'd need a US$40.5k deposit and be earning US$68,000 to get a mortage on it)...
Part of the reason is that male incomes in the UK having been falling in real terms since the 1970's and they now compete with 100% more people since most woman work. Basically unless you earn way over the national average in the UK (US$40,000) you need to be in a dual income house.
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