My work partner a couple days ago in between calls said she wants me to go to Paramedic school with her. The company we work for would pay for our schooling and we would pay it back over time through our paychecks. The cost is $8000.
I would like to do it, but have reservations. One is the fact that during the schooling and after I graduate there will be schedule conflicts. There may be times I have to tell my ex-wife that I cannot take the kids that week or weekend because of class stuff. My girlfriend said she would watch them while I am off doing class stuff, but I'm not sure my ex-wife would appreciate me not spending time with the kids when it's my week or weekend to have them, no matter what I am doing.
Second is that afterwards my work schedule will be such that my girlfriend and I will have no time to ourselves without kids. So, no going to a movie without kids, no going to a theme park without kids, nothing of any sort without the kids. Because I won't get to see them much, asking someone to watch them when I haven't seen them in a week or two and only have a couple days with them would seem wrong.
Some.migbt say see your girlfriend after work, by the time ahe gets home, it's late and she doesn't really go out after work as she moved closer to me to make it easier on us to see each other, but further from her work. So, she goes to bed earlier I order to get up on time to get to work. I will have to work every other weekend the whole weekend and that is where we would lose time to ourselves.
Third, being a a paramedic scares me. I'm an EMT now, but there isn't near as much responsibility as a paramedic. I'm afraid I'm gonna kill someone even if by accident and have that on my conscious for the rest of my life.
My girlfriend supports me fully in whatever choice I make. My mom doesn't care, but thinks I need to do it in order to better myself, get ahead and be able to support my girlfriend when we marry in the future. My girlfriend is fine with me staying an EMT and says we'll figure it out.
So, I am confused as to what to do. On one hand I will make more money and be able to provide better for my future and my kid's future and girlfriend's future when she becomes my wife. As an EMT I will never make enough to do all that. Then there is what I outlined above.
I do not want to become a nurse or a care giver in people's homes. I enjoy Emergency Medical Services. I enjoy being in an ambulance. I do not want to be stuck in a hospital setting or in people's homes.
Maybe someone can throw some incite at me and help me to order my thoughts and come up with a decision.
Edit-- Forgot to mention that having someone you know in class with you is a big help and that would help my partner and I do well in said class.
I would like to do it, but have reservations. One is the fact that during the schooling and after I graduate there will be schedule conflicts. There may be times I have to tell my ex-wife that I cannot take the kids that week or weekend because of class stuff. My girlfriend said she would watch them while I am off doing class stuff, but I'm not sure my ex-wife would appreciate me not spending time with the kids when it's my week or weekend to have them, no matter what I am doing.
Second is that afterwards my work schedule will be such that my girlfriend and I will have no time to ourselves without kids. So, no going to a movie without kids, no going to a theme park without kids, nothing of any sort without the kids. Because I won't get to see them much, asking someone to watch them when I haven't seen them in a week or two and only have a couple days with them would seem wrong.
Some.migbt say see your girlfriend after work, by the time ahe gets home, it's late and she doesn't really go out after work as she moved closer to me to make it easier on us to see each other, but further from her work. So, she goes to bed earlier I order to get up on time to get to work. I will have to work every other weekend the whole weekend and that is where we would lose time to ourselves.
Third, being a a paramedic scares me. I'm an EMT now, but there isn't near as much responsibility as a paramedic. I'm afraid I'm gonna kill someone even if by accident and have that on my conscious for the rest of my life.
My girlfriend supports me fully in whatever choice I make. My mom doesn't care, but thinks I need to do it in order to better myself, get ahead and be able to support my girlfriend when we marry in the future. My girlfriend is fine with me staying an EMT and says we'll figure it out.
So, I am confused as to what to do. On one hand I will make more money and be able to provide better for my future and my kid's future and girlfriend's future when she becomes my wife. As an EMT I will never make enough to do all that. Then there is what I outlined above.
I do not want to become a nurse or a care giver in people's homes. I enjoy Emergency Medical Services. I enjoy being in an ambulance. I do not want to be stuck in a hospital setting or in people's homes.
Maybe someone can throw some incite at me and help me to order my thoughts and come up with a decision.
Edit-- Forgot to mention that having someone you know in class with you is a big help and that would help my partner and I do well in said class.
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