My friend Amanda has a friend named Jessica. They consider each other best friends, hang out all the time, share each other's food, etc. Thing is, Jessica is a devout Christian. I mean, there is nothing that could convince her that Christianity is wrong and she tries to follow her religion to the best of her ability. Amanda, on the other hand, is an atheist. She has had a rough life too. She's been involved in a lot of drugs, been homeless through most of her teenage years. She's now trying to lay off the drugs, she's living with my friend Coltara, she and I have started job-hunting together, she's going to college. Anyway...
It's come to my attention that Jessica has said many times that she thinks Amanda's lifestyle is immoral and that she's not a good person. And we get the impression that Jessica thinks she can "save" Amanda. After a fight recently, I think Amanda and Jessica are finally realizing that they can't be friends in the long-term because of their differing worldviews.
My question here is primarily for Christians but I'd like to know what non-Christians think too.
For the Christians: What do you think about severing a friendship based on your religious beliefs? Shouldn't you just accept a person as they are? Do you believe that being someone's friend for the sake of saving them is right? Would your convictions that your god takes precedence over your loved ones cause you to shun people out of your life?
For the non-Christians: No specific questions, but I'd like to see your input too.
It's come to my attention that Jessica has said many times that she thinks Amanda's lifestyle is immoral and that she's not a good person. And we get the impression that Jessica thinks she can "save" Amanda. After a fight recently, I think Amanda and Jessica are finally realizing that they can't be friends in the long-term because of their differing worldviews.
My question here is primarily for Christians but I'd like to know what non-Christians think too.
For the Christians: What do you think about severing a friendship based on your religious beliefs? Shouldn't you just accept a person as they are? Do you believe that being someone's friend for the sake of saving them is right? Would your convictions that your god takes precedence over your loved ones cause you to shun people out of your life?
For the non-Christians: No specific questions, but I'd like to see your input too.
"Do not think that i have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. And a person's enemies will b e those of his own household. Whoever loves his father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves his son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me." - Jesus, Matthew 10:34-37