- Oct 2, 2017
- 3
- 6
- 29
- Country
- United Kingdom
- Faith
- Christian
- Marital Status
- Single
I don't know where I can place this. I just want to be able to speak to someone.
My family isn't religious and when I was about five I was molested by a family member. He got sent to prison. I went to high school (age 11 here in the uk) and learned about God and the Good Book. Although my family never understood it, they respected my wanting to bring him into my life, would drive me to church and pick me up after church.
Discovering God, and his son who died for all our sins was the best thing I ever did.
I am finishing my nursing studies over here in the UK, and I end up crying nightly to myself now. I don't want sexual relations before marriage, but I feel like broken goods and my worst fear is to put myself out there dating with a good christian man, and them to cast me aside because i'm damaged goods and not a "real virgin."
I cry more often than not nowadays, and pray to God nightly about my pain, but the pain I feel inside my heart never fades. I feel like i'll never be loved the way I'll want to be. I want to get married someday, but I feel like no one could ever love me this way with whats happened to me, alongside me wanting to save myself for marriage.
Would staying single and fostering / adopting be the best choice for me in the future? I've thought about it.
Thank you for taking your time reading this. I cry nightly and would like support about my next steps in life.
My family isn't religious and when I was about five I was molested by a family member. He got sent to prison. I went to high school (age 11 here in the uk) and learned about God and the Good Book. Although my family never understood it, they respected my wanting to bring him into my life, would drive me to church and pick me up after church.
Discovering God, and his son who died for all our sins was the best thing I ever did.
I am finishing my nursing studies over here in the UK, and I end up crying nightly to myself now. I don't want sexual relations before marriage, but I feel like broken goods and my worst fear is to put myself out there dating with a good christian man, and them to cast me aside because i'm damaged goods and not a "real virgin."
I cry more often than not nowadays, and pray to God nightly about my pain, but the pain I feel inside my heart never fades. I feel like i'll never be loved the way I'll want to be. I want to get married someday, but I feel like no one could ever love me this way with whats happened to me, alongside me wanting to save myself for marriage.
Would staying single and fostering / adopting be the best choice for me in the future? I've thought about it.
Thank you for taking your time reading this. I cry nightly and would like support about my next steps in life.