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There's a colossal difference.
I've noticed this tremendously in trying to interact with twentysomethings on various Discord groups, even within the church denomination I'm a part of.
Twentysomethings, in particular, don't seem to have been exposed much to the concept of elder respect. It's utterly foreign to the ones I've interacted with.
For example, when I was younger, if I ever told an older person to "shut up," I knew I would ABSOLUTELY face the possibility of at least ONE of the following:
1) a very stern lecture about my complete and utter disrespect
2) a slap across the face
3) an absolute refusal to engage me further until I apologized
Needless to say, I never told an older person to shut up more than once in my life.
Yet today I had a 20 year old on Discord tell me to "shut up" when I reminded him he was much younger than me (I'm almost 36) and had much less life experience.
The twentysomethings in that group, including an LCMS PASTOR (27 yrs old, one yr of service), said that the person posted that because I "provoked" him by mentioning age. They couldn't understand why I left the chat, and the LCMS pastor continued to try to lecture me about this on Reddit, insisting that me mentioning age was just as bad as him telling me to shut up.
I mentioned this elsewhere, including to the local LCMS church I go to, and NO ONE thinks what happened to me was justifiable in any way. They totally understood why I left the chat, and they totally supported the fact that I stood my ground.
However, these people are all older. They know of a time when telling someone older to shut up was just no no no no NO NO NO. You do NOT do that. And it was commonplace for elders to remind younger people about their age and experience. No one took that as some kind of 'provocation.' Come on.
Not sure when all this changed, but apparently it was a time span of less than a decade. Even a 31 year old pantheist I saw on Discord told a younger person that he needed to respect his mother as long as he was under her authority. But the 27 year olds and 28 year olds on a conservative Christian Discord couldn't grasp this. What on Earth!?
Clearly, 20s and 30s Millennials are on totally different pages regarding this subject.
I've noticed this tremendously in trying to interact with twentysomethings on various Discord groups, even within the church denomination I'm a part of.
Twentysomethings, in particular, don't seem to have been exposed much to the concept of elder respect. It's utterly foreign to the ones I've interacted with.
For example, when I was younger, if I ever told an older person to "shut up," I knew I would ABSOLUTELY face the possibility of at least ONE of the following:
1) a very stern lecture about my complete and utter disrespect
2) a slap across the face
3) an absolute refusal to engage me further until I apologized
Needless to say, I never told an older person to shut up more than once in my life.
Yet today I had a 20 year old on Discord tell me to "shut up" when I reminded him he was much younger than me (I'm almost 36) and had much less life experience.
The twentysomethings in that group, including an LCMS PASTOR (27 yrs old, one yr of service), said that the person posted that because I "provoked" him by mentioning age. They couldn't understand why I left the chat, and the LCMS pastor continued to try to lecture me about this on Reddit, insisting that me mentioning age was just as bad as him telling me to shut up.
I mentioned this elsewhere, including to the local LCMS church I go to, and NO ONE thinks what happened to me was justifiable in any way. They totally understood why I left the chat, and they totally supported the fact that I stood my ground.
However, these people are all older. They know of a time when telling someone older to shut up was just no no no no NO NO NO. You do NOT do that. And it was commonplace for elders to remind younger people about their age and experience. No one took that as some kind of 'provocation.' Come on.
Not sure when all this changed, but apparently it was a time span of less than a decade. Even a 31 year old pantheist I saw on Discord told a younger person that he needed to respect his mother as long as he was under her authority. But the 27 year olds and 28 year olds on a conservative Christian Discord couldn't grasp this. What on Earth!?
Clearly, 20s and 30s Millennials are on totally different pages regarding this subject.