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I'm not married... but I'm 18 so I don't exactly have a wife so I feel your pain! :)... y am I smiling? :mad: grrr. Anyways. Think of it this way, at least you have some kind of outlet every once in a while. Have you tried telling your wife that it actually hurts? If she knew there was pain...

I can help you get started I guess. God can really start working on your heart when you look at your motivation. At first when I wanted to change my motivation was "to be normal". I wanted to be attracted to girl for so many reasons: for the relationship, so I could stop sinning ect. all of...

11 days so far :) I posted alot earlier... then I was lead astray cause I messed up and one thing lead to another. Actually, God's really blessed me with amazing acountabillity from a guy I meet (not online) so things have been going good. You'll hear me say this a million times but it really...

Okay, I want to start. I was doing really good on my own, then I messed up and felt bad, so I came across this thread. It's 1 in the morning for me. So this starts my day one. I'll be praying for the group here. :thumbsup:

I'm in a very similar situation as you Dodola. I'm younger though, but I've grown up with a less extreme version of your life with the same results. I've just now been able to forgive my dad. I surrendered to full time ministry a few years ago, I'll be going off to Bible College in a few months...

If our answers don't work, try God's answers on for size. Accept him into your life, get a relationship with God, and begin to let him speak to you. He'll find a way to tell you what's right and wrong (since the Bible doesn't seem to help, lol). He'll convict you, and if he does, he'll also show...

The sin of Sodom and Gomorrah pretty much seals it dude. It wasn't simply a whole town with relationships between younger people and older people (as he argues where the sin would lie) it was a nice little mix of everthing. Those towns were destroyed... God doesn't exactly destroy things for...

Say we could cut down one of the trees that were back from the time of creation, why doesn't just not have rings? It could be a mature tree, it could complete all the functions of a mature tree, but it doesn't have the rings. The rings are a result of weathering and erroding, but if that never...

confessing your sins to each other is mentioned as something we should do in the Bible :) this forum is helping

Well, it's hard to help if that's all you tell us. There are so many other circumstances. Being obsessed with sex, that's a major problem with most people today. Don't believe that's part of being a guy, because your sex doesn't excuse you from any sins. To lower the amount you think about sex...

Oh yes he does. That's why I can look at the situation and not be distressed. My grandfather is a very Godly man and has raised a whole family in a very Christian way. His condition is worstening. I thank you so much for all of the prayer though. It really helps my family to know that people are...

My grandfather needs prayer. I'm just here trying to get everyone I can think of to say a little prayer for him. The main blood vessel to his heart burst, and they rushed him to some hospital in Denton. When they got there, they found that there wasn't a doctor experienced enough to do the...

Me next. I get caught up in how I look too much. I say that I don't... but I do, lol. I know that part doesn't matter but it does to me and I just need to get over it I guess. It's mostly with stupid things I can't even control like a pimple or something. I need to remember that God made me this...

Words of the experienced. Once you move out and get away, everything won't be emediately perfect. You may still stumble and fall on the way out. Don't get discouraged if you do. Just remember, you are holly to God and forgiven and he sees you without blame. You sin and ask for forgiveness, it's...

You did the same type of post for homosexuality and I don't think I understand you. You tell us how you experiemented with it and thought about each sin and you pretend you're a robot. If you don't struggle or have never struggled with these things then how can you know the depth of emotional...

I'll try to give you the short non-complicated answer. Sleeping in the same bed probably isn't good for your relationship with God even though it may feel good to sleep in the same bed with another person because another body is comforting. The Bible tells us to flee tempation. For me, sleeping...

Question: Is the person you live with Gay? Or are you attracted to him or is he part of your relationship. If he's straight, a christian, and your friend; then he can help you. If you tell him he'll probably want nothing more to help you and save you from pain. If he's your temptation, then...

Masturbation (self pleasuring is a sin for many reasons). First: it can hurt marrages later in life because it teaches selfish sex as an act to pleasure yourself but when you get married you have to catter sex to both of you and this can hurt the sexual part of your relationship if you are used...

You're doing the right thing. Showing love for him lets him experience Christ and some way and gives him a glipmpse of what God is like through your unconditional love for him. I do like one part of the last post. Showing him you deal with sin too. Now, this may sound menial and stupid to us a...

Nice origional post... but (yes the but means something bad) there is a flaw. You don't have God set anywhere in your plan. If you don't put God into your plan your homosexual struggles will start up again. Without God nothing permament can be accomplished. Also, I find it hard to beleive that...