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Wasn't sure where to post this, decided on this forum since you guys may know of him more. I remember seeing Leo Schreven (evangelist in the "All Power" series). It is strange to see he has now committed suicide. I have been reading his facebook page, and people are claiming all sorts of strange...

Its not nice to ask other girls for pictures of themselves for you to gawk at, then tell them how good they look. How is that supposed to make her feel? It makes her feel like she isn't enough for you, that you must seek out others. Some things are best left unsaid.

Perfectly normal. To go from being with someone to being alone will always hurt. Most of us are social creatures, we love company :) and companionship. But much of what you think you enjoyed of his companionship wasn't true at all! He was openly cheating on you by dating other women! You think...

The answer is so clear that if you posted this in the singles forum where people can be pretty rude, you'd be told you were a "troll". Seriously. Don't. look. back.

Yes but if you were acting super suspicious I am sure she would snoop. Because if she didn't, she would never find you cheating. If this girl had snooped all the time and found nothing, it is wrong. But, one has to snoop to uncover dirt. In this case, the two times she snoops, she finds...

Though I'm not going to mention any Bible verses, I would like to note that you should expect respect for your feelings on this issue. It isn't OK to feel pressured into having sex :) sex is a private, personal matter. If you start to feel pressured be sure to stand up for yourself and let him...

Gotta agree with the rest. There isn't really any sort of what to justify this in the slightest. He is dating other people, which still being your boyfriend. How does that work in a exclusive relationship? It doesn't. Thats because your relationship is not exclusive. And when we romantically...

Well I find the idea that being independent and in control is as a result of men being "lazy" as rather offensive.

Snooping can't be condoned in a vaccume. But usually, if someone snoops as a once-off because they're suspicious and their suspicions are proven right, perhaps the snooping was a fair call. Everything is relative. To find someone is cheating you have to do some snooping. If there is reason not...

Why didn't he delete those pictures on his phone? I can't say "dump him" because ultimately it all comes down to a whole bunch of factors. But the fact you've been together for 7 years makes it even more iffy. 7 years, and he's so willing to do this? Why? Why didn't he delete them? It is...

Of course you should go out! You should go out for the sake of the fact that by not learning to overcome your paranoia, you're missing out on a HUGE amount in life. Your life will be CONTROLLED by your paranoia. The more you go out probably the worse it comes. Living in chains is awful. Break...

This animal attraction/physical attraction is heavily infuenced IMHO by ones emotional relationship with someone. Though I do not find people "attractive", there have been guys in my past who I thought were kind of average looking, that went up a few notches in terms of appreciation for their...

Are you breaking up? It sounds like a temporary split. How old are you? At this stage, from a Christian perspective, both of you have been dating long enough and feel certain enough in your relationship that it seems like you should heavily consider marriage. 3 years is a long time. Even with...

It was very hard to take that seriously :P

Maybe a little bit? What is going to happen if you share a bed? Its not even like you're going to have sex or even engage in anything slightly sexual with her parents and sibling there. You are both going to lie down and go to sleep. So... yeah. I mean ultimately do what you can stand. But I...

Who did you date?!

I am asexy, which heavily influences my opinion here. But as long as they aren't gross looking, looks don't matter at all. Coming from this viewpoint, the idea of choosing a mate based on looks seems confusing and foreign.

LOL Yes. Its true, I'm secretly this really abusive horrible person. And underneath, when you least expect it, I'm going to come and hit you with a frying pan. And it will hurt :P

I guess keep it in mind. But lots of people can get angry enough to throw things. I've thrown things, and I am not abusive in the slightest :)

It really doesn't matter though: you can go on about how bad the crime was. Does that change your duty to love him? Is this the way you talk about someone whom you love? No?