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  1. searle29678

    Question about a Christian Marriage

    My advice would be not to put so much pressure on your duties as husband in the Christian sense and her responsibility to you as your wife in the Christian sense. If you truly want to have a Christian marriage the first step is to treat your wife a well as possible, like a Christan man should...
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    How do you and wife/hubby sleep?

    It depends on the season. I am the furnace in our relationship and hubby is usually cold. So..in the winter he is like a tick and I am burning up. LOL In the summertime, we stay as far away from each other as possible UNLESS we can afford the power bill that comes with having the air turned...
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    Redguard cordially invites you to the 4th annual marriage ministries potluck

    I think I'm doing this right. I am bringing: Porkchops Hot Wings Marshmallow Fudge Brownies I think the most major event of this year for me was my hubby's consistent transformation. Thank God!
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    "Well it's 8 o'clock in Boise, Idaho . . .

    Stephanie in the house!
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    Failed marriages

    A lot of times, people only really talk about their problems and they don't celebrate the good in their relationships. I will say that mine has been troubled and there have been times when I wanted to leave...but I stuck it out. There are a lot of marriages that seemingly can't be saved for...
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    So Mrs. Redguard is going to cut her hair...

    Yeah...sometimes I prefer it myself. As a special treat for the hubby I'm growing it back out. He says he prefers the short, but I know how he REALLY feels. LOL
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    So Mrs. Redguard is going to cut her hair...

    You men and your love of long hair. LOL My hubby was so afraid when I said I was going to cut my hair...like I was going to turn into some frumpy lady afterwards. Believe it or not, he now prefers the short hair.
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    Songs for a romantic occasion

    I'll Be--Edwin McCain Gets me everytime!
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    When it just can't get any worse....

    I struggle with this too...I guess we can all pray for the wisdom to see what God is trying to show us.
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    Wedding anniversary tomorrow

    Congratulations!!! Any special plans?
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    When it just can't get any worse....

    I don't want this to be about me...but what made me think of this is talking to one of my few Christian friends. I hadn't spoken to her in a while and I mentioned my hubby and she said 'You still haven't left him' I thought to myself 'Ya know, if I had left him when all these people told me...
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    When it just can't get any worse....

    Ok, so I have a thought. I have had troubles lately regarding finances...rent, car notes, power bills, etc.. I just can't seem to get to the point where my ends even wave at each other much less actually meet. LOL When I talk to other Christians about the issues they always say 'Pray about...
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    What if you deeply loved someone but they couldn't or wouldn't love you back?

    It depends on what you mean by that. If my spouse beat me, verbally abused me, had a drug habit, or what have you I don't think it would be out of the question to move on. If it was a matter of "I want a date night and you don't" or something along those lines, then I think you probably need...
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    Is "The Melting Pot" all that and a bag of chips??

    I like it! The food is good and the dessert is fun too...fruit and the like. I say go for it!
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    Praise Report....Thanks for Prayers

    Me too!!! I am so thrilled....and it means so much to me to see him trying. If you knew how much he hates going to his mom's you would understand what a big step this is. LOL
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    Praise Report....Thanks for Prayers

    Hello everyone! Some of you may remember a thread from me several weeks ago regarding my husband and myself. He wasn't working and there were issues with drugs and friends that we were struggling with. His mother is a very devout Christian and could be a great influence on his life and he...
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    Avoiding Divorce

    Yeah, my parents divorced after 25 years because they never took the time to talk to each other about what bothered them. By the time my mother left, it was ridiculous some of the things they had never discussed. I think a lot of divorces are caused because people go into it with an...
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    Avoiding Divorce

    Oh my Gosh!! This hits so close to home it's not even funny. I totally do this for my husband. I have ALWAYS done this for my husband. Recently I just had to sit him down and say 'Look, I'm not going to give you money for gas, and pay for your cell phone, and movie rentals etc..along with...
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    Love, but not IN love...

    I would think when someone says I'm not IN LOVE with you anymore that it means 'I love you as a person, like a family member, and I would never want to cause you harm...but as a man loves a woman or a woman loves a man, not so much.' Even if this is a phase and even if it is part of the ups...
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    Found viagra

    Maybe you haven't been intimate because of his insecurities about performance and he is testing the Viagra to see if it works?