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  1. bubblefish

    7.1 earthquake/Christchurch New Zealand

    Definitely praying Hun :hug:
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    Feeling Alone and Confused...

    Sent you a PM Hun :hug:
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    The Penguino Family - Lean on us when you're not strong, and we'll help you carry on

    I agree Tracie :hug: I was amazed as I put that list together how many people were actually there.
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    The Penguino Family - Lean on us when you're not strong, and we'll help you carry on

    :hug: I've contacted who I can. How are you all? What have you all been doing? I'm glad that a number of us could get back together, even if it is during a sad time. I also have messages from sinneD and Minty:
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    The Penguino Family - Lean on us when you're not strong, and we'll help you carry on

    Contacted so far: GoNoles ; newbeliever02072005 ; MaraPetra ; Bamboo_Chicken ; Robinsegg ; MeekOne ; RavenRift ; Criada ; genesisfactor71 ; Godslilgurlalways ; intricatic ; nbiol ; openup4christ ; pete56 ; Prissanna ; - can't contact (over max pms) SnarphBlat ; - can't contact...
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    The Penguino Family - Lean on us when you're not strong, and we'll help you carry on

    I know it has been a long time and have no idea if anyone is still around any more... but bumping this up in memory of our beloved mom Penguino :( Rest in peace Dede. :cry:
  7. bubblefish

    Hello from an old mod!

    Oooh I remember you :D:D Good to see you are doing well. (you might remember me as cat_goes_meow)
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    New forum request

    It is a good idea. But I am sure you would also be welcome to post in the survivors area if you had questions or wanted to talk to survivors. There are a few family members/supporters who post there occasionally too so it is probably the best place to start. Survivors of Abuse forum
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    Adjesumpermarium, rest with God

    I worked here with Dede for a number of years. She was an amazing lady - kind, caring, compassionate. She kept us all sane through the stressful times and proved that no matter how hard things got, that there was always some hope, joy and a ray of light that could shine through. She will be...
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    looking for an email friend

    Sending you a PM Hun :hug:
  11. bubblefish

    Doctor Appointment-First one really since it happened...

    :hug: Thinking of you Hun! Everyone has bad therapy appointments, especially when things are pretty rough. Hang in there :hug:
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    Doctor Appointment-First one really since it happened...

    :hug: It is always a hard thing to do but you really are doing so well Hun. If I can ask, how did your appointment go? Did your T help at all?
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    Doctor Appointment-First one really since it happened...

    I can understand that.. But well done for going and getting through it! A lot of people don't even make it there :hug: I am so sorry that you are going through this now and the issues that the abuse caused :( If you ever want to talk Hun, please let me know.
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    Doctor Appointment-First one really since it happened...

    :hug: You will be fine Hun. I know it is extremely hard right now but try to practice your breathing and do things that relax you if you can leading up to it. Thinking of you :hug:
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    easter memory * RA trigger *

    I'm so sorry you had to go through this, or continue to live with it now. It is not fair for anyone to endure something like that. Thinking of you in this hard time :hug:
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    Doctor Appointment-First one really since it happened...

    Hun, that is one of the hardest things to do and while it is terrifying at the time I am sure it will be alright :hug: You can get through it. Any doctor you see should do everything they can to make you comfortable, especially due to the circumstances. And always remember that if at any time...
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    Scars and Dating

    If you are planning on telling someone I think the best way (for me anyway) would be to tell them in person if you are comfortable. However, there is also nothing wrong with emailing someone or writing them a letter if you are uncomfortable talking about it in person. If it were me, I would...
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    Seeking Help

    I agree with Shara and Sarah :hug: It is hard to talk about, but the counsellor is there to help, and they can only help when they know what works or doesn't work. Techniques don't work for everyone - it can take a while to look at different types before you find something that really works for...