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    Just venting....

    Ok. I understand that and that's very honorable of you. Just remember your son. I hope you find success and happiness.
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    Feminist Marraiges

    Great. I look forward to a day of more enlightenment where our differences are embraced and celebrated....because this new age of self-entitlement, narcissism and lack of accountability is just blowing up in our faces and filling everything full of bullets.
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    Feminist Marraiges

    I realize this is simply flamebait, but it's worth addressing in a civil manner. What this tells me is that you actually don't know what a true warrior is. As I've mentioned above a true warrior alludes to one's character. So then, who is a true warrior? A true warrior is a person who...
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    Feminist Marraiges

    You would think that in "today's day and age" that they would have the answers. That if they truly had it all sewn up we would be seeing positive results. The divorce rate would be declining. There would be less conflict. Have you looked outside your window lately or read the news? If...
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    Feminist Marraiges

    Anyways.. Back on point. I believe that the most successful marriages are built upon embracing each other's differences. The strongest marriages I know are built on leveraging each other's strengths, like the Yin and Yang. I mean, we'll see.. But two people can't "wear the pants" so-to-speak...
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    Feminist Marraiges

    I admit I don't really care about the "modern connotation" of anything. A mercenary is simply someone who gets involved in a conflict for money. They're not doing it for free. It's a job like any other. Again, I'm not in any way questioning their valor, honor or bravery and I'm not even...
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    Feminist Marraiges

    That would actually be the very antithesis of a true warrior.
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    His inappropriate content Addiction is driving me crazy

    Keep us posted and let us know how you make out. You won't find sincerity in brow-beaten concession so I pray that his soul speaks to him when he makes that first step. I pray that by some miracle the end will justify the means.
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    Feminist Marraiges

    Not to discount their valor and patriotism, I would never do that. However to expand on why I invite you to find out what a warrior really is, a military serviceman or woman is not a warrior per se, they're a mercenary for hire. Being a warrior is about character first and foremost.
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    Feminist Marraiges

    I truly hope you don't. I really don't enjoy pictures painted of victimization and victim complexes. There's no such thing as an innocent victim of circumstance. I'm not going to get into it with you because it's way too in depth for this thread or conversation, but I'll sum it up in a few...
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    Feminist Marraiges

    Women (and society at large) love feminism until there's a battle to be fought. Then they're scrambling around looking for men. Warriors are a real inconvenience unless there's a battle.
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    Feminist Marraiges

    I don't see any way of it succeeding long term. Well, more specifically I don't see any way of YOU as a man succeeding long term. You need your ego and masculine warrior spirit to compete and win the battles of life. Otherwise you're just going to enjoy mediocrity both in your marriage and the...
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    His inappropriate content Addiction is driving me crazy

    Ok. We're getting there. We are in control in my context. We are in control of our behaviors, our thoughts and our actions. The only thing we're NOT in control of is anyone else's behaviors, thoughts or actions and we are not in control of the outcomes. Here's an example of mine that I see...
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    Views on adult products in marriage.

    There's nothing inherently "wrong" with sex toys in a Biblical sense, though I'm sure if you look hard enough you can find someone who managed to manipulate and mistranslate the Sacred Law to such an extent. Having to use them just means you're impotent which is symptomatic of a much deeper...
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    My husband doesn't trust me to have friends

    Hi Hyperion, This is a very difficult position to be in because really, based on what you're saying, it's completely outside of your control. You can only worry about your own behaviors, which you seem quite amenable to. It's a good start. I would definitely stay that course. Since you can't...
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    His inappropriate content Addiction is driving me crazy

    "Be the change you want to see"
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    His inappropriate content Addiction is driving me crazy

    That's very pacifist of you. It's also incorrect and an excuse for inactivity. If you asked me to build you a house, but you stood by and did nothing but watch me build it, I'm not actually helping you. I'm doing it for you. God doesn't work that way, but many Christians misuse the sentiment...
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    His inappropriate content Addiction is driving me crazy

    Exactly. This isn't a blame game. I think you misconstrued everything I said. Rather than scratch the itch, deal with the source of the itch. This is about accountability and what part can WE do? What work can WE do? What do WE have control over and how do WE take our power back? The...
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    His inappropriate content Addiction is driving me crazy

    What kills me is how many people are quick to cast the first stone. Let's look at that first. It's so easy to look at all the weeds in someone else's back yards so we don't have to pay attention to the garbage dump in our own. It placates us, vindicates us, satisfies us that "I'm not THAT...
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    His inappropriate content Addiction is driving me crazy

    First things first. You knew he was into it. You believed what you wanted to hear, not what you observed and that was a big mistake. I'm sure you know that. NEVER believe what a man says as it's just crap to get into your panties (just enjoy it). Always believe what a man does. Observe his...