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  1. laura-ann

    How long before you got engaged?

    about 2 years!! and our engagement is about 2 years. SIGH!! haha. theres nothing else we could have done, and i definately, definately would not reccomend it to anyone at all.
  2. laura-ann

    where are all the kiwis?

    hi :)
  3. laura-ann

    Do you have a significant other?

    yup i do, im so lucky to have him aswell!!
  4. laura-ann

    Have you had your first argument yet?

    heck yes we have had heaps :D hehe. i was going thru a bad stage a few years back, lucky he loves me enough to tolerate all that otherwise we would be long gone!! but we hardly argue anymore, we just work thru things its much better
  5. laura-ann

    When is your wedding?

    282 days to go :( so longgggggg sad as it sounds im used to waiting... we have been together almost 3 and a half years and have been waiting 2 years out of respect for my parents...(they arent christians) and let me tell you 2 years is a long time to wait!! will be almost 3 by the time we are...
  6. laura-ann

    Where were you married/where are you planning on getting married?

    we are getting married in a church which is not ours but a pretty one hehe. and having a close family friend/minister marrying us.
  7. laura-ann

    I'm Finally Meeting Him!

    just thought i would add my 2c. the way i see it, you are definately married. of course you are! Who's to say you are not! You have made a commitment before god with witnesses! Anyone who decides you are not married needs to re-examine their priorities in life. But yes, you are very brave. Dont...
  8. laura-ann

    Will you expect/be a submissive wife?

    amen! I will definately be a submissive wife, or at least strive to it. i think alot to do with being submissive is being respectful towards your husband - respecting him enough to make the important decisions. and yes, a good husband should always put you first and make the decisions with your...
  9. laura-ann

    Which is worse?

    strange question at best! yess all sin is sin.. is some sin worse than others? is it worse to lie or kill in Gods eyes... from my perspective.. rape is much worse.. at least divorce is generally consentual between both parties.. wheras rape... :(
  10. laura-ann

    Biblically speaking, when are two people considered married?

    totally. if you are married then you dont need a "wedding" later on, or else you are just saying that you have been unmarried up until that point. Marriage is something sacred, and who are we to judge two people - if they have made a commitment to God infront of witnesses then surely he is...
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    Biblically speaking, when are two people considered married?

    Definition of marriage - Commitment to one another before God. What is not marraige - sex. Sex does not make a marriage Marriage should involve sex Just because two people are engaged does NOT give them the right to have sex. They first must make the commitment to each other before God. How...
  12. laura-ann

    Your friends marital status?

    none of mine are married or engaged..... and im the youngest. one of them is in a serious relationship, the rest are lovely and appear very happy for me. which is great.
  13. laura-ann

    Young Engagment

    wow isint this thread funny!!!! i didn't get married either!!! but because of my parents... nothing to do with us. infact our relationship has grown in leaps and bounds, and we are getting married next year. our wedding website is here if you want to be nosey...
  14. laura-ann

    we want to be married

    I love it how everyone says "dont rush into it" and "if you are commited now imagine what it wil lbe like in 5 years when you have money"... dont listen to them. im sorry but imho, they are very wrong. i am in a very similar situation to you except I am 18 and my fiancee is 23. I think...
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    Does anybody have sex before marriage?

    Have you told him that you dont need a nice house to get married? I know so many people who are married but are not well off financially, and I would say it definately makes them stronger. If you can be with someone and be happy when you are poor, things can only get better when you have one...
  16. laura-ann

    Going to ask her dad for his daughter's hand tomorrow

    COngratulations man, what a sweet story, im so excited for the both of you especially your girl!!!
  17. laura-ann

    What make/model of vehicle do you own?

    wow wow! everyone has such new cars!!! i have a 1990 honda civc hatch and its so lurvely. howeva i want a merc or a beema! and my car is good for most people my age :P
  18. laura-ann

    What is your theme going to be?

    Mine is going to be very elegant and pretty (quite girly actually) but everyones all for it cos they know how much of a girly girl i am so it should be wonderful. white and pink, with a bit of black really thats it. not bright pink tho! baby soft pink
  19. laura-ann

    Did you wear white?

    Im wishing for a white dress with softest pink emboidery mmmm
  20. laura-ann

    Just for Fun...How Tall Are You?

    5"9 :)