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  1. Tuffguy

    Never Complaining

    I think as long as we make our spouses 100% comfortable in our homes, we are on the right track. A man or woman can't feel like the are a prisoner, or everything they do is under the others scrutany. That is a miserable situation that needs to be avoided at all costs.
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    Never Complaining

    This should be the standard and not the exception. We can't nag our spouses,,,it really is unChristian. How could they not hate us if we do? Everyone hates being raged on.
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    If you had to rely on emotion or logic when choosing a spouse...

    Combination of the two,,, I asked myself logical questions that kept my feelings in place. -Will she be able to lead my children? -Will she be faithful forever, no matter what happens to me? -Will she submit and still give me a good piece of her mind? -Is she a true Christian?
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    DH Got Fired Today Cause He's A Non-Smoker!

    Honestly, if i was in his shoes i wouldn't want that job in the first place. If that is the attitude around that workplace, why would you want to work there?
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    After watching Sicko...

    I hear you and i completely see where you are coming from. We were all brought up with different expectations of government and the services provided by them..so our 'world view' is different. I would caution you to make sure that we are compairing apples to apples. It is a known fact that...
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    a question for the guys

    Actually, the OP was about "wandering eyes" not lusting after someone not your wife. Clearly, lusting is a sin. That is a straight shot, no discussion issue. This is about noticing and glancing, not staring and lusting. It is obviously also not applicable to your situation and why my...
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    Scripture references to pray for a servants heart toward husband selfishness??

    Very good stuff. I also love those passages. Perhaps focusing on those passages when you're NOT having problems is what prevents you from having problems. :)
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    Are people these days control freaks?

    People hate to feel powerless.. and control = power.
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    When did you get your 1st traffic ticket?

    It is a complete miracle i still have my liscence. :)
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    After watching Sicko...

    You're correct,,, right now it is the insurance company that takes the money. However, it is the interference from the government that makes it expensive in the first place. That and malpractice insurance. Everyone is sueing doctors these days.
  11. Tuffguy

    On Nagging

    You're really just saying that you're nagging is ok, since he has short comings. Well, so do you. I guess i'm not really sure why you don't just do those things yourself? What is the big deal? Is it that hard to clean out a guest room? Is it that hard to take out trash and clean up a shed? I...
  12. Tuffguy

    On Nagging

    That doesn't matter. We're both still responsible for behaving a certain way. Besides, if i was too lazy for her tastes then she should not have marriend me. MEN DON'T CHANGE!!!!! All the nagging, all the bickering does nothing except make for an unhappy marriage.
  13. Tuffguy

    On Nagging

    My wife and i don't nag each other. She would rather take out the trash herself than remind me to do it. She doesn't remind at all. She is a hard worker and so am i. We just do it w/o talking about it. I'm not stupid. If something needs to be done i'll do it. If i didn't do it then it can...
  14. Tuffguy

    After watching Sicko...

    The people that have their hands in your pockets are the government, not corporations. Everything has become unaffordable, not because of capitalism, but because of people wanting to be taken care of. More public education, more welfare (corporate/social), more government subsidies, more foreign...
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    After watching Sicko...

    I always thought name calling wasn't allowed on these boards. Interesting.
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    Dealing with the "wanting kiddies" problem

    I think what you'll find from most people that have lots of kids, is that kids = blessings. So more kids = more blessings. My pastor counsled my wife and my self before we where married. He's an awesome guy, but we both have different views on birth control and family planning. His view...
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    After watching Sicko...

    So everyone is white! LOL Thanks for clearing that up. Strange how hispanic didn't even show up in the CIA stats you posted. We have 20-45+ million illegal immigrants, never mind the ones here legally. It is diverse in the cities,, no doubt,, i've seen that myself. Canada is a very different...
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    After watching Sicko...

    Infant mortality rates are only one factor, not the lump sum and end all for the entire medical system. Factors you're not considering. Race - some live way longer then others, and others way shorter. Canada is far from diverse. Crime - urban crime in poor areas is huge
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    After watching Sicko...

    People do come here for surguries that they could not have done as quickly as they would have liked. Sorry put it happens for a reason. If you are not paying your bill, someone else is, who is probally not sick. Why should they pay for you? Plus, i would be willing to bet that you are paying...
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    After watching Sicko...

    ? Its the United States Post Office. USPS. They are government employees. Some sites are run (contracturally) by private citizens, but they pay to the USPS. The postage is also regulated and one one is allowed to compete with them for letter type mail.