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i didn't really want to air my issues, but perhaps getting the whole thing off my chest will do me good. I forget things easily. i think i'm ADD. i get wrapped up in goofing off, and i end up not doing anything. important stuff doesn't get done, phone calls don't get made, plans don't get...

I've trapped us here, based on a poor decision, in a very unpleasant situation, and no money so we couldn't even leave or fix the problems if we wanted to. yeah. that's great. *sigh* i'd rather not go into the catalogue of my failures, but trust me... i've made some doozies. i don't think...

i appreciate the suggestions. they will certainly help us get through the rest of the winter. however, i still have the underlying issue of... well... failing at life. :-/ i love my husband dearly, and he loves me, or else i am sure he wouldn't have put up with me for so long (we've been...

i didn't accept at the time, i called them back up the 2 days later when we were terminated. hubby expressed that he wasn't real happy about going north for the winter. i wasn't real happy about it. its cold up here. but like i said, to me it just seemed that things 'went together'. i don't...

and it's my fault. it seems i can't do anything right. i'm not just saying that, it just seems that everything i touch breaks. every decision i make, no matter how good it looks at first, turns around to end up horrible. latest screw up is our current location. we are fulltime RVers and we...

i thought that what was being said was basically "if you type like this, how can you *really* be properly homeschooling?" to be honest, yes, it was a little tough reading, but nothing to justify that harsh response, and i certainly wouldn't have made a post just to complain about it. and i...

tickling, ,thumb wars, trying to scare each other, play-wrestling with each other and sometimes the dog too... plus, we have 2 computers and sit side by side playing online games together. makes for lots of giggling

Name: Vicki Age: 35 How long you've been married (assuming you're married): 8 years How long have you been TTC: havn't used any BC in over 4 years How many kids you have: 0, just Luna our fur-baby How many kids you want: at least one

i never said communication was the have all end all *wink*

communication

haha! :-P i think the biggest communication issue between what one 'side' was saying and the other, was the fact that one person had 1 list, and the other had 2. glad the topic has turned away to other things.

*looks up* wow, that was one heck of a long rant for a short simple question... *shrugs* and as for the other issue being discussed now: YES. it is absolutely true that withholding sex for no good reason at all can make the other partner look elsewhere. as much as we are, as a whole, a...

i think you made some mistakes without realizing at the time that they were mistakes, and mistakes can be forgiven. as long as you aren't fantasizing about those other men when you're with your new husband, or comparing him to them... you are fine have a long and happy life together. <3

good point. ordinarily you can't have a good marriage without sex, that is true. and yes, we have a Biblical obligation TO EACH OTHER. however...you can't build a marriage, not a good one at least, off sex alone. which is what makes it on a list of things in a good marriage, but not on a list...

when a person gets old and can't perform anymore, or gets sick or injured and can't perform anymore... is the marriage over? are you still 'obligated' to try and 'do it', even if you can't? no hence why it's on the list of things IN a good marriage, but not on the list of things that MAKES a...

i realize exactly what he's saying. and many people view divorcees, especially those with children, as exactly that. damaged goods. its unfortunate, but a reality none-the-less that some people think that way. just because someone points out that "reality" doesn't mean they believe it...

what's the problem here? sheesh good sex, great sex, lots of sex... those don't MAKE a great marriage. lots of people have sex, with or without marriage. great sex GROWS out of having a GREAT marriage. if you have a good marriage, you have good sex. ergo, sex is part of a good...

different definitions. yes, we are all sinners, but... Key is referring to the sentiment that a divorced person is "damaged goods" in that the previous relationship has left scars and emotional baggage. one SHOULD be able to figure out that's what he was referring to from the CONTEXT of...

wat? :mmh:

ok, i digress. i'm sorry for what i said earlier. i'm just getting a bit annoyed at the sheer number of inappropriate content threads. also, i'm female. and quite happily married to a wonderful man