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    Seperation to fix a marriage?

    Well, in the end, I didn't really get much of a choice in the matter. I went to live with my parents for about six months, with the mistaken belief that I would be moving home "soon." Finally, I couldn't wait for soon to come and I bought a place. I've been living on my own for a few weeks now...
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    Need Advice...Visitation ??? What Do I Do?

    If he can't act appropriately with them, then he can't be with them. It's that simple. Children should not have to suffer any sort of trauma just because that person is their parent. If and when he is able to come to terms with his own issues and act appropriately, then he can have contact with...
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    How did you get over it?

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    How did you get over it?

    Thank you everyone for sharing your thoughts and prayers with me. I've been doing a lot of praying and a lot of waiting and I'm just trying to take it one day at a time.
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    How did you get over it?

    How do you mourn the death of a marriage? I feel like I'm in mourning now (I just found out that he called a lawyer- so I guess I can't try to convince myself it's not really happening anymore) but I don't know how to get past these sad and desperate feelings I'm having. Do I toss out the...
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    Please pray for a broken marriage

    Thank you all
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    How did you get over it?

    I feel so confused, I don't even know how to pray or what to pray anymore. I feel absolutely stuck. My husband doesn't want to be with me anymore, but I can't bring myself to leave or to accept that it's over. It doesn't feel over. I feel like I'm living in a nightmare that I can't wake up from...
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    Please pray for a broken marriage

    After only 2 short years of marriage, my husband has decided that he is not cut out for marriage and wants out. I still love him very much and I am still committed to this marriage. Please pray for the restoration of our marriage. Please pray that God will soften my husbands heart and help him...
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    How did you get over it?

    As an update, he wants to separate for sure and I am crying my eyes out, hyperventilating and feeling like I'm going to lose my mind. I think I might take a brief leave of absence from work, maybe even take a trip. Try to get away and get out of my head for a while. Anybody tried this as a strategy?
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    How did you get over it?

    Well, here's my story in a nutshell. I've been married just over two years. My husband is confused, not sure if he loves me the "right way", not sure if he will ever want kids (he knows I do) and thinks that we should separate or divorce. Especially since he doesn't know when he'll figure it...
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    Feeling a little lost...

    Hey, So we didn't try the seperation thing, but it might come down to that. My husband wants to "set me free." He says that he cares about me and he loves me but just doesn't know if he can be married anymore. He says he doesn't want to hurt me anymore, that I deserve to be with someone "better"...
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    Seperation to fix a marriage?

    Hi, Just wanted to know if there was anyone out there who knows of a marriage that was helped by a separation. My husband wants some space and after quite a few months of problems and a two week separation, he would like to get separate dwellings. To me, this seems like it would only make...
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    Touch of Color ~

    I think it's up to the bride to make that decision, the only thing I've ever seen that I personally find really tacky is an all red wedding dress. I don't know why, it just seems weird to me. I don't mind a light colour, or a dress with a little colour though. For me personally, however, since I...
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    His Ring

    I bought his ring, but it was just a plain white gold band, so it's not like there was much to pick out. The biggest option was what thickness, and I just asked the saleswoman what the average one was and got that one.
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    white or yellow gold

    Mine will be white gold for two reasons; One- there's no way my FH will wear yellow gold and I want our rings to match Two- just because I like it and most of my current jewellery is silver or white gold.
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    Scared! What do i do?

    okay, I'm sure I'll get flamed for cross posting, but I need to point out something that concerns me. I read this thread after I read another one where you posted and you said " I'm engaged/christian/sexually active all at once.." My concern in this case is over your motives for getting...
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    Who is paying for the wedding

    I always thought it would have been the two of us paying for our wedding, but then I found out my parents have created a wedding fund for me, which should more than cover the small wedding we're planning to have.
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    Grades...

    In high school I probably should have cared more- in college whether I just pass or get honours I still end up with the same certification, so what does it matter? Mind you as of yest, I got 2 A+'s, an A and a B+, so I'm pretty happy