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Hi there, i'm engaged and getting married soon. Anyway i just want to get to the point and it's the reason why i came back to CF after so many months/years. We quarrel quite often maybe once a week. And i realise the reason why that happens is because she doesn't listen and i nag/criticise, and...

Hi guys/gals, i'd like to seek some perspectives on what i'm struggling with right now. I'm not in a r/s currently but have been through 2 of them. The last one ended about 3 months ago. I know the concept about love languages by Gary Chapman and have been trying to know myself better through...

Read this from the book Every Woman's Battle. Finding The Love You Want Maybe you are thinking, Oh, I've been hearing that all my life! The answer to all my problems is "Jesus, Jesus, Jesus!!" I know Jesus but i've never felt complete satisfaction with Him, wither! If that's the case, I...

Hi guys, this is to those in an LDR. i'm just wondering how do you guys deal with LDR. I'm in an LDR since May and would want advice or wisdom in how you maintain a wholesome (spiritually, emotionally, socially healthy) LDR that enables each other to have their own time and also shared time with...

Hi all, i'm wondering whether any of you occasionally think of the idea of being single all your life. For me i do think that and it scares me really because i do want to be with a partner all my life instead of being a hermit..lol. I figure i'm already this old and i should have found a girl by...

Can We Still Be Friends? “If we can’t get our relationship back together, can we at least stay friends?” Probably not, at least not if your relationship was emotionally intimate. There are certainly exceptions to this, but usually couples who have experienced some form of a best...

Second Chances Should we give a second chance to a girlfriend or boyfriend with whom we've become dissatisfied? Again, the answer is, "Maybe," but not without different, definitive boundaries or expectations in place to help us be objective about the likelihood of change. The specifics of the...

Got this from a mailing list. Moving on. If these fears are not present or can be worked through, one should be able to see a clearer road ahead for moving on from a troubled relationship. The following reference points can be helpful once the decision to move on is made: 1. Be...

thought i'll share this with all of you.. Finding Mr. Wrong, Again and Again Dr. David B. Hawkins The Relationship Doctor Gail is a fifty-something, divorced woman with enhanced blonde hair and a bold, stylish presence. This perfectly dressed banker came to see me to understand and eliminate...

Moments for Singles: Greener Grass Leigh McLeroy Author What gift are you hoping for, wishing for, longing for, right now? A mate? A date? A better job? A long vacation? Children? A financial windfall? Chances are your wishes, your longings, your desires, lie just beyond your ability to...

These audios have gave me tremendous understanding on the real Ellen White and dealt with the myths and controversies surrounding her and her writings. So far i've heard from George Knight and Craig Newborn and it's EXCELLENT! I learnt that there are 3 kinds of Adventists. 1, those who can't...

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Recently i was browsing the GC website and came to this page which i copied and paste below. It says we shouldn't use the abbreviation "SDA" in an official or public way. So my interpretation of public is when relating to non-adventists or when there are non-adventists present. If we were to use...

Why Some Stay in a Bad Relationship Les & Leslie Parrott eHarmony.com The experience of unrequited love – not just a minor crush, but an intense passionate yearning – is virtually universal at some point in everyone's love life. A study involving more than 150 men and women found that...

Just read this very enlightening article. I initially had the impression that dating is just for marriage. Feel free to voice any other comments. Dating Is Not About Marriage From Dr. Henry Cloud's How to Get a Date Worth Keeping. "You just said that we ought to date a lot of people to...

This is real interesting even for me..hehe Your Love Is Not Enough "I'm going to ask you to choose between two bad feelings," the retreat speaker said. His gaze swept the divided room of 20-something singles, the men on one side, women on the other. "If you had to, would you rather...

This goes out to all the girls. In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question "What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking "Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, he said, "Yes." She began to...

hi guys. i've a question. Not sure if this is the right forum to post this. My gf would be going to LA for a month and she's thinking of getting a job there. Not in a company of course but she wants to earn abit of cash you see. My question is what can she work as over there and how much would...

Just copied and paste from a mailing list.. Most of us have a friend, maybe someone we grew up with in church or met at college, who has given up on the idea of finding the ideal Christian guy. Not that they stood up and announced this to the world. There was no official declaration. Maybe...

10 Reasons to Hope When You're Hurting by Steve Arterburn and Mike Marino 1. God is truly in control. If God is God, then nothing happens apart from His knowledge and permission. While it is difficult to imagine why God allows some painful things to happen, His character, revealed in...