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What would be worse? Getting a divorce which God forbids and subsequently becoming an adulteress for life or committing suicide which is technically murder?

I think it's a wanting more issue. I've always wanted him to be more driven about life, to be a stronger man in his convictions, to be more ambitious, to be more Godly. Not to be coasting along and just following what I do. I've always felt like I have to be the primary decision maker, I'm the...

No not really :( I have been with him for over 7 years but we finally got married. We lived together most of that time unmarried. I felt like it was obedience to God for us to get married. Parts of me do love him very much but because I keep becoming infatuated with other men I feel like that...

It's both! My unfaithfulness in the present has made me realize I have a serious problem so much that I had an online affair last October. I felt guilty about it and wanted to confess then but was too scared to admit what happened and I thought if I could get past it and keep the secret...

It's a serial problem, with different people. But my feelings for this current person are unresolved. Ok I'll look into finding an older female Christian mentor as you suggested. Thank you

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Even if I wanted to I wouldn't be able to cause he is married as well with a family and I would never want to be a homewrecker. I have feelings for him but I refuse to pursue a married man and hurt his family. The idea of that makes me feel sick in my stomach. But because I have developed...

I confided in just one friend when it happened and she is a Christian. But I don't really have anyone else to talk to about it now so that's why I'm here, figured I could ask fellow Christians on here but everyone seems to think I should keep the secret and try to carry on.

If it was the other way around I'd probably be crushed. I'd want to know if I was betrayed. Because I'd probably sever the relationship. So I'm afraid that's what's going to happen.

I like the suggestion of fasting and praying, I think I will do that starting tomorrow.

You seem to be the only person who thinks I should tell the truth. Everyone seems to think I should keep it a secret. What is your opinion about what God might think about this?

I don't think I'd feel relieved at all. I think I'd feel terrible. And he'd probably be crushed.

I became interested in someone else again and I feel exhausted going through this. I've been praying to God for months to help me but my feelings for someone else that's not my husband have only gotten stronger and I don't want to have an affair. But last night the thought occurred to me I can't...

Hi everyone I need some advice. Last October I had an online affair with another man, it was before I got married and I was engaged. I ended the affair and was considering telling my then fiance but I asked some friends for advice and they encouraged me not to tell since it was a couple months...

Sorry I haven't been responding, I have been away and thinking about things but God is working on my heart and doing a wonderful thing in my life and in my relationship, he is helping me to see faults in the other man and instead shining light on how wonderful my husband is who is always there...

Hallelujah you are free! Praise God!! That is an awesome and encouraging testimony!! :) thank you so much! I will take your advice my friend. I have been saying each time a sinful adulterous thought enters my mind I cast it out in Jesus' name. Someone on here told me to do that. Also I started...

Yes and I can be radical in giving this over to God. Although I don't think he wants me to choose one destructive act over another. I see 3 doors, one is self-destruction through adultery, another is self-destruction through destroying my career. Both would also affect my husband and our family...

I think it would be better for me to overcome the adulterous thoughts than to make a rash decision and destroy my career. I have a good job and it would be very hard for me to start all over. Also, if I told my husband he would be very hurt. It's one thing if I actually committed an adulterous...

That is a very good point about what Jesus said with plucking the eyes or cutting the hands so to speak. I have been considering what you said and so I've included that in my prayers. I know it's not a literal sense of cutting my hands or plucking my eyes but it's spiritual so I am asking God...

I'm trying to be consistent every time a sinful thought enters my head I am saying, I cast it out in Jesus' name! I think it's working because although the sinful thoughts are persistent I feel like they're getting less and less and so I do think it's starting to work! I am trying to also pray...