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Glad I could assist you in feeling better. I guess using smaller words had worked for you.

Didn’t really get any good advice form you.

I had thought there would have been some married couples who could shed some light on how they fixed their situations. To be frank I have seen one poster talk about that. Instead I am seeing more biblical and posters laying assumptions that are untrue at me.

And here is another example, you guys are laying out some attacks at me, saying I may struggle with calculations. I assure you that is not the case otherwise I would not have the job I do have.

You mention they are working together, where that is not the case for me. So again key word in what you stated is that they are working together. It is not wrong. Such as two oxen pulling a plow, in my case only one ox is moving.

I am the one who has applied to work and school to get to where I am today. And because if that I guess I will try to break it down for you Barney style and use small words for you. Since the start I have been supportive and loving, I was hoping that is what she needed to get herself going...

Yup, when I talk to her and actions towards her have been a supportive and loving husband. She has said the same to our counselor. I have tried to encourage her and support her towards goals. Issue is I am the only one doing the work. And now my opinion of her and our marriage is different. Is...

Key word “together”

I guess your reading comprehension low. Try reading again about the Bible references. I see that as the same thing.

And the two don’t line up? Mind to elaborate on that?

I would like to see you spend tens of thousands of dollars to bail your wife out of debt, for she had before we were married and didn’t tell her husband about. And I found that out by the IRS when they garnished my tax return. Doesn’t work and yet spends money on things that we don’t need. I...

It is more of a facepalm, when instead of advice I get “the Bible says”. Which is why I put that in my first post. It appears reading comprehension is quite low from some of the posters here. My attitude has been a supportive husband since day one. What I wanted and need if for my wife to a...

Just because someone has an illness, doesn’t dismiss their actions as a whole. I have lost friends to both depression and cancer. Which is why I am dismissive of such a weak attempt of a point you are naively trying to make. Three have committed suicide and one had died to a muscle eating...

Looking for advice and vent tbh. I stated in the beginning that I know what the Bible states on divorce , and yet that is 90% of the posts on here. Which tells me most of this posting are either not in a marriage, or have not gone through what I am going through.

When someone does an asinine things such as comparing two different illness and try’s to dress them up as the same thing. I tend to ignore that.

Depression and cancer are not the same thing. I am going to ignore your question from that. She had the depression long before I had met her, it was only when I had taken her to counseling that she gotten treatment for it. It was because of me not her that she has gotten anything done about...

If this is the wife god gave me, then it appears I am on the short end of the stick when it comes to blessings in this life. I am viewing this as I have one life to live in this planet, I already have one regret of not going for something. I don’t want to spend a life of misery married to an...

When I approach her about this, she was crying, for she had thought she had improved. To where she does help around the house, but that is it. Still nothing on job/career prospects. She had asked me what more could she do and I have already told her before. So I fear she isn’t reverting back to...

Didn’t David sleep with another man’s wife, then had the husband killed when the wife was pregnant from David? Was David still considered a friend of God? Yes, I should be thankful of someone who contributes nothing to the marriage. To where I am stressed for trying to make this work only for...

There is barely any grass where I am standing, I have done everything to pull the weeds for grass to grow again. All I get in the end is being drained. I am not proud to say she is my wife, more a dependent. I don’t see the reason why I have to put forth so much work, time and energy. When I am...