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I haven’t cut off the internet bc I’m a stay at home mom and am working from home and need internet. I turn the internet off at night before I go to bed but he always turns it back on. If I cut off the internet all together I lose the additional income I’m making to try to help with groceries etc.

So I’ve posted before on my husbands inappropriate content use and my concerns. I still haven’t decided how to handle it because I’m afraid if things blow up and we separate I don’t want the possibility of losing my 3 kids even if it was split custody. But recently I found he’s been searching local escort sites...

What if he has nowhere to go and we can’t afford another place ? Do you have any ideas for that? I do think it’s the best solution from the way things have gone in the past but don’t know how to practically make it work.

Thank you so much. The more I have been praying about this I do feel like that may be the best way to go about this. And I agree with your boat analogy. I even asked him today about it and he lied to my face. I gave him the opportunity to talk about it and get my help but even though he knows...

I don’t know- I feel like he’d be too embarrassed to get help at church. And I agree with the filtering as in the past no matter how I find out about it he found a different way to access it and then lies when I try to ask him how it’s going or if he’s been tempted. And he knows the lying hurts...

He is searching specifically for that

Him this past time because I haven’t fully decided how I should handle this. And trust me I’ve been praying and seeking god and just still don’t feel a clear peace about how to go about this. I really wish I could afford to talk it out with a Christian therapist.

I really appreciate all the input more than you all know! Some seem to think this is pretty serious, others not so much. It’s so hard to know what to do because while I feel like I know him, this other part that sees all these things he’s looking up feels like I don’t know him at all. I’m not...

No I don’t believe he’s watching anything with young kids. But I haven’t clicked on anything to check bc I don’t want to see it. But I think it’s just incest titles with adult actors.

[Staff edit]. Thank you so much that is a lot of really good information and resources. I really do appreciate it! I will start with the links you’ve provided and fasting and prayer. Thank you!!

That’s what I’m thinking. So is this a threat to my kids? My marriage? Should I just keep praying for change or take action and do something? If so what? I just feel at a loss for what to do or make of it.

Yes he’s a Christian. When we talk about it he seems to want to stop. But then will NEVER be honest with me til I find out on my own again even though I’m always understanding with him. I don’t know if he’s ever really stopped. This has been going on over 10 years.

My husband has struggled with inappropriate content since before marriage and continues in the cycle of me finding out, askinghim, him lying until he realizes I’ve seen, then confessing and apologizing saying he won’t do it again. I always forgive and offer to support him if he’ll just be honest about it. This...