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  1. Lucy23

    Prenup??

    You’re right ! And thank you for your honestly ! I wish more people were straight forward because people need to hear it. We had a long talk and he decided no on the prenup because of how it made me feel and I told him he needed to propose ASAP. Again, thank you for taking your time and telling...
  2. Lucy23

    Prenup??

    Thank you for your input! I appreciate you and your advice. To be honest, in the beginning we were but then stopped, we’ve repented & are waiting for marriage. We had a long talk and he decided not to go through with the prenup because of my feelings on it & told him he needed to propose SOON...
  3. Lucy23

    Prenup??

    He would want the prenup to protect what he’s earned before the marriage. After, marriage everything is ours. Great advice to know about the bank situation, that’s an incredibly sad story. :(
  4. Lucy23

    Prenup??

    Thank you so much, your words helped me a lot. We are talking tomorrow, wish me luck. I know I can’t keep putting it off. :( he’s actually a really good guy so it does suck ...but I agree with you & ive felt like this for a while.
  5. Lucy23

    Prenup??

    He is of ordinary means, I just don’t know what else to say to him thank you, this was the response I needed to hear. I hope everything works out.. :/
  6. Lucy23

    Prenup??

    Thank you for your response, advice, and the article. I really appreciate it. I don’t think he’s trying to break up at all because he does get visibly upset if he thinks that’s MY intentions. He honestly doesn’t see an issue with the prenup in anyway shape or form and says I’m not being...
  7. Lucy23

    Prenup??

    Thank you for taking the time to share your advice, I really appreciate it because I have no one to talk to on this manner. I know this is his perspective. How you’re writing is how he thinks, and I know it’s genuine. I guess it’s just so hard for me to accept because I don’t see divorce as an...
  8. Lucy23

    Prenup??

    Thank you for your honest response. He doesn’t think we would get divorced but says “just in case” (which is contradicting)I know he comes from an ugly divorced family. I explain we are not like his parents at all in every way possible. He’s also expressed I’m not responsible with my money...
  9. Lucy23

    Prenup??

    We’ve he has not, because he wants / (hopes)for me to agree to a prenup first. I refuse it over and over again. He says I’m acting on feelings & not being rational. I do wonder what the church would think of this...
  10. Lucy23

    What do Catholics think about this?

    I would find a different church. I’ve been to several different churches (from moving) and haven’t experienced this. My biggest pet peeve is hearing the “you don’t have enough faith” :( we are not to judge who does and doesn’t “have enough faith” I wish you the best of luck and hope you got some...
  11. Lucy23

    Prenup??

    Hello, I’m new here so hopefully I’m doing this right? My boyfriend and I have been in a serious relationship for over 3years. A couple months ago he brought up possibly wanting a prenup. I couldn’t help but feel betrayed & taken a back. We’ve always had strong,loving, trusting relationship with...
  12. Lucy23

    What do Catholics think about this?

    I’m a practicing Catholic. I’ve never been to a retreat but I’ve never heard of this behavior......ever. I’ve always been taught we repent for our sins and the priest will have you say a couples of prayers after confession not just basically say: you’re good to go! Also, I’ve never been told “...
  13. Lucy23

    Pray for my relationship

    Me & my other half having some problems seeing eye to eye.
  14. Lucy23

    Confused catholic

    Hi, my name is Lucy and I have no idea how any of this works bc I’m new and this is my first post. For the past 6 months I’ve been driving myself bananas because I’m beyond confused and upset. I’ve been raised as a strong Roman Catholic and it is all I know. A majority of my family is Catholic...