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Hello! Thank you so much for responding and giving me your input. You have some great ideas, but I've already tried them. He is non-responsive. I have been able to get him to play cards, but he doesn't enjoy it. He did play family games when our daughter was much younger. I have tried the...

We have tried pastoral counseling. It wasn't that successful. It would be a very hard task to get him to attend professional counseling. But, I can ask him again. It's hard for me to have much hope in it, though. We've tried reading marital help books. He reads it and still doesn't...

Thank you so much, KimmyO! It helps so much to hear from people like you that understand. I do work part time at an assisted living place. I was looking for volunteer, but it turned into a part time job with activities. I also struggle terribly with a chronic illness. It stops me from doing...

Hello NBB, Thank you for responding! I have told him in detail about how much he hurts me. He doesn't really respond, just is mostly silent when I try to talk about it.

YES Lleopard!! Your post helped so much!! Thank you so much for taking the time to write to me! I want to write more, but I need to get ready for the job that I do a few hours a week. It is the only thing I have going for me that gives me any type of real human relationships. I work in...

Thank you for replying, how would I get free Christian counseling?

Hello Aspzan, I really appreciate your reply. My husband was in the Army. He did not have an MOS that put him in any danger. He did work with a special unit in the military. I can say that I'm 99 percent sure that he has never seen anything traumatic. About my crying spells. He usually...

Thank you so much, Lileopard! It helps to not feel so alone in this!

I am brand new to this forum. I am hoping to just find someone that understands my situation and doesn't tell me that what I've been dealing with for 23 years is normal. And that my husband is just like every other man that has a problem with sharing his feelings and emotions. At the moment I...