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Anyone who asks for prayer deserves our prayer. We are not to judge who is deserving or not. So I will pray for your pain and God’s healing and discernment for you regarding God’s will in your life. I hope you get better, sister.

There’s no such thing as a perfect church. They all have flaws because it is full of imperfect, sinful people … we all are. This is the problem when I hear Christians disappointed, they were looking at people. You might not know that some of these people were also looking at you and expect a...

Hi Brent, Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit being unforgivable was possible only during the time Jesus was on earth when the Pharisees doubted that it was the Holy Spirit causing the healing and miracles made by Jesus. Any worship and love for Satan, or blasphemy against the Lord or the Holy Spirit...

May I respond to your original post, Brother? Be careful with using the word “ALWAYS,” because that is hard to support. Many Christians do not have the same experience. God will not change for you, it is the other way around. When we see things through God’s point of view as explained in the...

When a person is saved and hears that “you are a new creation,” “you are a child of God,” “He will give you whatever you ask,” “you have the power of the Holy Spirit,” it is natural that a young Christian sees magic, instantaneous transformation, infallibility and want to see results based on...

I will pray for you, my brother. I have read a good amount of your posts and I feel so sad and burdened by the things happening to you. I really pray that your situation gets better. And I will pray this whole week that your wife undergoes a spiritual transformation to stay away from false...

Try getting the book, “Every Man’s Battle” by Stephen Arterburn. It will help you by getting informed about what you are dealing with, how it transforms your brain without you noticing it, and how it will control you even if you think you can control it. With other well-known psychologists, they...

There’s really no formula. It seems that what you are doing are normal things that Christians do. Spending time with God should be delightful and not a burden, just like spending time with a loved one. But you cannot do it all the time. So you set your “amount” of time, which also may vary from...

My wife and I read that book, "Love and Respect" by Eggerichs quite a long time ago as part of our Bible Study and I forgot about it. SirHash is right, this is a good book and consider getting it because it can transform the way you treat each other. It did that to me and my wife. And also, the...

IMHO, it seems to me that your problem is mainly about family dynamics, you have certain idiosyncrasies from your past and she has hers. There are a lot of resources about how to properly discuss issues like this article, “Keeping Marital Conflict Healthy” at Keeping Marital Conflict Healthy -...

I will pray for whatever God knows is best for you. You situation is hard and I will pray for discernment, guidance and support from loving brothers and sisters in Christ, as well as miraculous turnaround or improvement in some if not all of your conditions. Take care, brother.

I am not downplaying your pain, but if your loved one is 100 years old and you want her to go on for 20 more years, what then? We desperately need healing, sometimes it comes miraculously, sometimes it comes through medical science, sometimes it doesn’t come at all. It does not change the other...

Sorry, the XXXX is this link What is the grace of God? | GotQuestions.org which I forgot to put in, because I had to search for it. Thanks.

Well, QB, what is grace to you? How do you define it? Is it a feel-good thing that Christians just throw around to make another calm and settle down, as you said, comforting words? Here is a good definition, XXXX, but even this I think is not enough. As I understand it, grace is ALL the good...

Keep on praying, and I will pray for you this week. It is good that you got connected to a sexual purity bible study group. Get some counseling from a pastor as well, initially just for yourself, then your wife and then together. You need to keep pursuing restoration while there is still hope.

Keep praying for him, this is the first thing to do. Pray that the ground be prepared and that God will send you to minister to him. It might even turn out that it is not you who will be able to really share the Gospel with him. Be a friend and model compassion but pray and wait for the proper...

I will pray for you this week that God will intervene and restore your marriage and that you and your wife will individually go back to the Lord for guidance and leading.

I will pray for you, my brother. I do not understand why she would get upset. As your wife she should have shown compassion and concern. For this to trigger physical violence and destruction of property, you need to get back to the pastor and ask for more help, hopefully some church volunteers...

This is a very difficult situation. You need to be commended for everything you are doing, being a responsible husband and father. There are many men and women who would just get up and leave. This shows your strength and groundedness. You and your family need as much prayer as you can get. But...

God can choose to forget your sins because He is God, while you are not. You are human, our minds are feeble, deceptive, corruptible, imperfect and fallen. It takes time because your guilt is genuine and the devil is there trying to lure you back, to get you to throw up your arms in the air...