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  1. Lowlander

    Advice and support needed

    Difficult situation, easy solution. Go to another church and break contact with him. It's that simple.
  2. Lowlander

    What Kind of Coffee do you drink?

    Black coffee. No milk, no sugar. It keeps me going.:innocent:
  3. Lowlander

    How to know if I am doing something an idol?

    As long as these things are not more important to you than God is, there is no problem. There are many things us human beings can find important in our lives. For example our relations with friends, our jobs, our hobbies and so on. As long as you don’t get obsessed with it, there is no problem...
  4. Lowlander

    Im new (HELP! Im a believer, but have no friends)

    Although I believe that you got kids weigh to early in your life that isn't important at this moment. You say that you have been engaged since you were 12 years old? Your relationship with your partner is not healthy at all. I understand you have kids, and you should be there for them. But you...
  5. Lowlander

    Why is it a sin to be in an interracial relationship?

    It's not a sin from a christian perspective. Interracial relationships can be tough and harder than being with someone of your own race because of the different backgrounds your families have and so on but that doesn't make it a sin. I've never encountered anyone who opposes it from a christian...
  6. Lowlander

    NYT: Centrists are the real threat!

    Democracy means that the people are in charge. The most democratic country in the world is Switzerland, where they have many referendums which is a form of direct democracy. Having that said it is clear that the US has a democratic system and a republic at the same time, but it is less...
  7. Lowlander

    NYT: Centrists are the real threat!

    Left, center and right belong to the past. Politics is weigh to complicated these days to use these terms. On some issues Trump is tending more to the socialist side, against free trade deals for example, and with other issues he is leaning to a more capitalist approach. You can't use these...
  8. Lowlander

    How do you get over making a fool of yourself?

    You need to gain self confidence in general and in that specific area/subject. The first is not that easy, the second has to do with preparation. How is your self confidence in general? If it's low, are there any steps you have taken to improve it?
  9. Lowlander

    When is it gonna be enough?

    We've had many Islamic attacks with vans in Europe. Should we implement some form of van control here? We've also seen many Islamic shootings in Europe, and guns are forbidden here. The school shootings in the US are horrible but banning all guns may not be a good idea. I would plea for a ban on...
  10. Lowlander

    Guidance in my relationship

    He is dependent on you, and indirectly blackmailing you in that way. If you break up the connection, he will end up in jail. Is that what you want in a partner? Of course not. I understand that it’s difficult to let him down, but his life is not your responsibility. And even when you’re not...
  11. Lowlander

    What to do about an insecure guy I met online...yikes

    If you like him as a friend you can still send him messages. If he says to you that he gets feelings for you, you have to say to him that you just want to be friends. I don’t see a problem here.
  12. Lowlander

    There is no white genocide in South Africa

    De facto there has been a genocide going on in South Africa against white people for several years already. Evidence is on the following website: Farmlands: South Africa's Farm Murder Documentary
  13. Lowlander

    How to Handle a Very Slow Job

    Well you could discuss it with your boss and you might ask him if there's another job available for you there. You could of course also look for a job somewhere else. I don't see any other options at the moment.
  14. Lowlander

    Pray for Ireland

    I know. That's why I asked that question to him.
  15. Lowlander

    Pray for Ireland

    I see. Some libertarians are against abortion because of the non aggressive principal.
  16. Lowlander

    Pray for Ireland

    As a supporter of the US-Libertarian party you support a woman's right to kill a baby? I believe the official standpoint of the party is in favor of that right.
  17. Lowlander

    What masculine/feminine qualities would you like in your partner?

    A helpful, loyal and compassionate person. That is the most important to me in terms of character. Her appearance must be feminine.
  18. Lowlander

    Judge orders 30 year old man out of parents home

    I assume there is public housing in the USA? If that's the case, I agree with the decision made by the judge. It's absurd for a person of 30 or older to stay with his/her parents if that person is not ill.
  19. Lowlander

    Ambience

    Listening to debates on my phone in my bed before I go to sleep. It's absolutely ridiculous, but for some reason it relaxes me and it let me fall asleep. In the evening I would say watching a movie or something beyond my desk. Reading doesn't relax me as I don't read fiction.
  20. Lowlander

    Newcomer with a few very specific questions

    Most people can't make a living with their hobby/passion. You have to be really good in the arts to earn money. If you don't make it in that area, it doesn't automatically mean that you have to work in the food industry. There must be other fields that seem attractive to you.