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  1. Disa

    Husband's warped idea of "lovemaking"

    Hey you guys. Thank you ALL so much for your thoughtful replies with great advice, kind words, prayers, and support! It has been so much appreciated. I just want to let you all know that there is a big change in my situation. As many of you speculated above, the problem was worse than I even...
  2. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    Firstly, thank you all who warned me about using my photo and name; however, I want this to be a documented journal, with all I've gone through with this man, because I was fearful he was going to try to make up lies about me. I'm still unsure, and so I will just leave it here - for now. My hair...
  3. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    Guys I'm so sorry I just now found out that I should not be replying to everyone individually (can someone let me know if that's true - someone told me). I want to thank you all for giving my situation such careful thought, and handling me with care, and truly showing how loving and caring you...
  4. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    THank you so much for the thoughtful encouraging words my friend :)
  5. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    Thank you. On Sunday I actually spoke to a counselor at a church pretty far from where I WAS living. I didn't want to go anywhere my husband might be known. I'm about to make a new thread about that experience. It was quite helpful, although I will have to find a new counselor because I'm not...
  6. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    I agree! As I'm about to explain, I'm in an even more morally corrupt parts now :(
  7. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    You are very kind & thoughtful. Thank you. As for my name and photo, well yes, it's a shortened version of my real name, but yes, it's what my friends AND husband call me. I did not put my last name though. I put Hong because it's an inside joke when I first moved to the US one of my classmates...
  8. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    No it does not sound weird, it's encouraging and so nice to read! At a time that I need it most. Thank you so much. But I already think I am highly overrated :tutu: Seriously though, THANK YOU and God bless!
  9. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    Thank you. I'm about to explain something about this below but first want to thank everyone.
  10. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    Thank you, Dave. It truly helps me - even just knowing that.
  11. Disa

    Husband's warped idea of "lovemaking"

    Yep. He's made me sin many many times to satisfy his own interests. I'm not 100% innocent of course, I KNOW I can say no. But I think, "Okay last time I oblige." There's always a next time though. I also mentioned to someone in a private message too that it's pretty obvious that he knew the...
  12. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    YES! LONG TERM thinking! EXACTLY! Thank you again!
  13. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    You are too kind, and I appreciate that. Thank you so much. I look forward to seeing more of you here.
  14. Disa

    Husband's warped idea of "lovemaking"

    Thank you! LOL
  15. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    Thank you so much. I actually am giving it seriously consideration because as I sat here a little while ago thinking about a new post to make, I was thinking, "Which story should I tell?" and realized at that moment, WOW there are too many stories. Your thoughts, prayers, and support is much...
  16. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    Ha ha ha aaawe thank you. I'm nothing special though I assure you lol. I just posted a new post a little more about just the top of the iceberg what he does. The story I posted is probably the LEAST horrifyingly embarrassing, unfortunately. By the way, he says he does not want children :( And...
  17. Disa

    Husband's warped idea of "lovemaking"

    So I've joined and met a lot of friendly helpful people, and I am being honest when I say that I feel a difference since all of you have told me you're praying for me. Thank you. I'm back to keep this short and to the point because a few people have asked or been curious about whether or not my...
  18. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    Oh I pray that you will be pleasantly surprised. Or, that your prayers will be answered in some other way for your daughter. How helpless you must feel. I can only imagine. I appreciate your taking the time to reach out and pray for me as well with all going on with your daughter. I will pray...
  19. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    Hi Phoebe I replied to your pm. Thank you again. And I'm so sorry about your husband. I hope he is at peace. Praying for you both. And that's where I lived, Miami. Coral Gables to be exact. I spent most of my time at the Barnes & Noble bookstore because it was open 7 days until 11 PM, and it...
  20. Disa

    I'm terrified.

    Thank you Tom. Much appreciated. I've decided that I should let the others know a few of the things that happened. One is more embarrassing than the next lately. It's that it's just... I dunno, "gross?" I will post on this category though because it is ADVICE that I need. Thank you for letting...