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    Why is my ex boyfriend acting this way?

    I don't think he did, I think he was just covering himself at that stage to make it seem as though he was truly contemplating and praying over whether our relationship was the right thing, rather than what he was actually doing (starting a new relationship). Funny how he never had time to text...
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    Why is my ex boyfriend acting this way?

    Thank you for your kind reply, I really needed that kind of compassion at the time so I appreciate it. I am doing much much better although it is still hard and has effected me greatly. I took your advice and cut off all contact, he hasn't made any effort to contact me since as I presume he is...
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    Why is my ex boyfriend acting this way?

    Hello, thank you so much for your very kind and encouraging reply on my thread. It was such a tough time for me and a reply like yours was just what I needed. I'm sure you're a great encourager to the body of Christ. I agree that I was desperately looking for love and approval and sadly my ex...
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    Why is my ex boyfriend acting this way?

    Hello, just wanted to say thank you for your kind reply on my thread. I found it very helpful while all of this was going on. I learnt that I had to let go of control and the idea of the person I thought my ex was. Unfortunately, that still messes with me because it's a strange feeling when you...
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    Why is my ex boyfriend acting this way?

    Not a particularly helpful answer. I was extremely hurt (and still am in ways, but by the grace of God I am greatly recovered) and was looking for answers. Clearly fornication is wrong and I was very wrong for that, however your answer was really useless to me and probably others reading as it...
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    Why is my ex boyfriend acting this way?

    Hi, thanks for your reply to my thread. I see what you're saying and agree with you in some instances. For example, I would agree that many men (and probably women too) fall in lust rather than love and therefore can easily give up once they are bored. However, I disagree that that men cannot...
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    Why is my ex boyfriend acting this way?

    Thank you for your support and advice. Admittedly, I had some maturing to do. Although I was a very mature person, I was naive because I wasn't able to recognise the signs of a manipulative and controlling person. I think it's sad that having an 'innocent' view on people and taking what they...
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    Why is my ex boyfriend acting this way?

    Hey everyone, I hope you're all having a blessed day. I apologise if this post should be on another thread, I'm new to this site. My boyfriend and I were together for a year and he broke up with me a couple of months ago. I was blindsided as he had shown no indication of being unhappy. In...