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    Breaking the ice

    What's your usual approach to meeting and getting to know new people? I find small talk frustrating most of the time. I'll ask questions about them or what they've been up to, but it's difficult to make conversation with someone who only gives answers like "Nothing much." This happens to me...
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    You're a Virgin? Challenge Accepted!

    Are there no Christian men asking you out who share your values? Are you putting yourself out there for them to meet you? I find it hard to believe a Christian guy wouldn't be interested in you because you're a 28 year old virgin. If that's the case, there's something wrong with him, not you...
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    I've never met another millenial without a smartphone.

    I'm 33 but consider myself a millennial. Finally ditched the Nokia last week. For better or worse, I now have a Facebook machine in my pocket.
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    What are you listening to right now? (24)

    Study music. Coz I'm studying.
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    Drugs for enlightenment?

    Not personally, though some friends have done drugs and felt they were closer to God. As far as I'm concerned, feelings aren't a great indicator of reality; they were just interpreting being high as a "God" experience. It didn't result in them suddenly going out and giving all their money away...
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    What if there is neither bread nor honey at your table ?

    Take a visit to the local social welfare office and apply for a benefit.
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    How do you..authentically..love someone? [Advice needed]

    Feelings are just chemical reactions in your brain. Nothing more. You could pop an ecstasy tablet and feel you were loving God, the universe and everything. I wouldn't rely on feelings too much as an indicator of reality. People make all kinds of mistakes by living for their feelings. Just my 2...
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    I feel like I'm denying God.

    Sounds like OCD. Personally, I think the most important thing you can do in life is be authentic. Whether that involves being a believer or not has to come second to being genuine. If you feel you need to let go of religion for a while in order to establish your own identity and discover if you...
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    Do YOU have a crush on anyone? (59)

    Don't underrate yourself. If guys serving jail terms manage to get girlfriends, it seems unlikely that you couldn't. There's most likely a lot of women who would be blessed to have you in their life that way. Too many guys think about women being on a pedestal, when in reality they're just...
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    How can I stop lusting after my best friend?

    Your feelings are normal. The reason you exist is because your father felt the same way about your mother. We all have these feelings, because God has made us a sexual species. Our sex drives are the reason we fall in love and want to be more than "just friends." Flee from sexual immorality, not...
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    It’s Time to Bomb North Korea

    You lost me at "the One World Order."
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    What DID you think about turning 30?

    33 now. Can't really remember my 30th. Don't think I did anything special. I mean it's just a number, you know? Who gives a flying monkey dick whether you meet anyone else's ideals for what your life is supposed to be like by a certain age. I'm not middle class, I don't own a house, I don't have...
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    It’s Time to Bomb North Korea

    Killing has its place. Eg a cop can be a Christian and shoot someone when they have to in order to protect others and serve the greater good, I don't believe that's a sin, though it is tragic. It should obviously be an absolute last resort. A Christian should never be trigger happy. They should...
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    It’s Time to Bomb North Korea

    The US has had to face possible nuclear war since the last Korean war. I'd counter that a possible nuclear war is better than an actual war, which costs actual lives rather than just sleepless nights. The cat's out of the bag now anyway, NK has nukes. What's the use in bombing them now? Korean...
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    Dating while a student

    I don't think family building is the purpose at all. Or at least, I think the main reason to have a partner has to be for companionship and intimacy. But I digress.
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    It’s Time to Bomb North Korea

    A war with North Korea will probably end up involving China and Russia, just like last time. Is it worth it? I think not.
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    While Listening to Music

    Yeah for sure. I work a night shift, absolutely I need to play something to keep me going. Lot of different music. Lot of it is 90's because that's when I grew up. Lately I've been listening to a lot of Outkast and Fear Factory. I enjoy Vince Staples latest a lot as well. I usually listen to...
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    celibate single needs advices

    I'd say focus on socialising more and getting out of the house.
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    How's your 30 something going?

    I'm 33 and having the usual "What am I doing with my life?" moment at this stage of it.