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I am 2 years outside of my undergrad years (Geosciences) and finished grad school in GIS and Remote Sensing (scientific mapping and satellites) in May. I’ve been involved in an online part time job as a GIS Analyst but I am searching for a full-time in earnest due to the job’s unpredictable...

I am in pretty bad shape right now mentally because I haven’t got any good help IRL or from other forums. After receiving rejections from most women I have been interested in, while having other women who I was previously good friends with slip away from me upon leaving uni, I’ve decided to be...

Hey CF I’m back! I’m also back with an inquiry that I’ve always questioned as a Christian, especially in the wake of Joshua Harris’s (“I Kissed Dating Goodbye”) renouncement of his faith. Another major figure whose faith/salvation status whose been of interest to me as a music fan is John...

As I finish up only one more years worth of some pretty technical coursework, I am not particularly interested in romance right now, but would love to pursue it after getting out of school and finding a job. But of course my anxiety and lowly self-esteem have got in the way, in particular...

People sure do love playing games with me. Even Christians are no better with deception than say a Satanist. After a couple of years of wasting my life on half-hearted people who say they care about me in general but ended up proving otherwise I am confused and afraid of digging myself further...

"RED hair is a crown of glory" ~ My Take on Prov 16:31 This one goes out to all my lady friends who are blessed with a lovely blanket of red hair, even if there's just a shade of ginger! You're part of a very special 1-2% of the general population. Enjoy :) An Ode to Redheads Most unique in...

My suffering is endless, and God has destined me for failure. It all started with childhood medical trauma (private matter, no questions please) when I was a kid, which people have used as an excuse to bully me as well as distrust in my ability to function, even though I don’t remember much of...

One of the very first groups I spent time with when I became hot for God was the Baptist Student Ministry. I wasnt with them for long because I already committed to a different Bible study group, and a embarrassing moment I had with couple of my friends in that group tainted how this group saw...

Hey CF, I thought I would take this opportunity to thank each of you who have replied to me, both publicly and through PM to support me with the subject I brought up in my very first CF post "Burned Out and Cynical" (posted Dec. '17) . I frequently come back to that thread to remember the...

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I have been in a battle with my flesh between being content with my single walk with Christ and committing to a relationship out of jealousy of others’ dating lives. What is particularly sickening to my soul is seeing my peers flaunt their romance on social media and seeing others toting their...

I need help with constant guilt which has been acting as a cancer for the past year. Though I have been following Christ for a few years running, my walk has been affected by confusing and strict theology from churches, and frequently feeling unsatisfied with the quality of my family and social...

Dear CF, I am inquisitive about the subject of feelings and their validity, as in recent times I have endured much hardship and needless suffering as a result of people failing to understand me. Although I have been in the process of being built up by people who have praised my honesty and have...

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Hello CF. I have a question about the appropriateness of a single dude like me spending time with married couples. This question has come up after it appears that most of my friends in my Christian community, with the exception of a few closer friends, are married or well on their way. As it...

Hello CF. I have been struggling in the past year with debilitating anxiety and self-esteem issues partly due to the feeling that I have no one to be open or vulnerable with. Throughout the years people have praised me for my gifts of my positive outlook on life, good communication skills and my...

Hello everyone. I have been in a struggle with self-esteem issues for the past year, and my singleness has been part of my problem. Marriage and family are not my highest priorities in life at the moment, having just started grad school and its not that easy to have a romantic relationship at...

Hello Christian Forums. I am new here and I have had a difficult year due to various spiritual and personal struggles, so please bear with me here, as I really need help. I used to go to church, it was the love of my life, but now I feel burned out and just can’t stand the thought of going back...