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He just seemed really unphased by the way I told him, like it wasnt a big deal.

The guilt is really hard on me, and I am so disappointed in myself for allowing this to happen and even starting down a path that could jeopardize my family and marriage.

Thanks for the advice. This whole situation has been a wake up call and eye opener

Well it appears by some definitions I did have an emotional affair.

Thanks for your sound advice. I guess I should clarify is that I told my husband I think I may have been involved in an emotional affair for the months around my surgery-I told him who it was but did not elaborate on much more than that. He did not have any questions and just said I love you and...

I feel like if I would have kept up the friendship I could see eventually crossing more boundaries. That is what scares me the most...how did I not see it when I was in it. I am searching for some strong Christian women friends-hoping that will be a good sounding board for me in the future...

thanks Darkhorse. He is a great guy and I am sad that last year we grew apart emotionally. Do you think I should disclose all of the details of this inappropriate relationship to him? If he asks any specifics I will tell him.

Last year was a very tough year for me, my mom got diagnosed with cancer and I found out I had to have a major surgery in another state-we have two little kids so this was overwhelming. I befriended a male co-worker (yes, red flags should have started to go up-but they did not). We became super...

Are you saying I should confess to my husband??

i am a married mom of 2. Last year was so hard, my mom got diagnosed with cancer and I found out I had to have a large surgery with a big recovery. My husband and I just emotionally drifted and I started talking more to two male friends. I was talking and texting them frequently about anxiety...