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She wants things done, she asks me to do it, then stands over me, micromanaging me, telling me every detail of how to do it. It drives me up the wall. Sometimes it’s downright infuriating. I’ve told her a hundred times,what I’m hearing is “you’re an idiot who can’t do the smallest task without I...

Missing fathers and America's broken boys - the vast majority of mass shooters come from broken homes

I remember one telephone for the household. It was located in the kitchen. If you needed privacy, the cord would reach to the bathroom. What day you??

I’ve touched on this topic before, but I keep learning more, and gaining a deeper knowledge of myself and our marriage. We’ve come to understand a majority of the problems, frustrations, conflicts we’ve suffered over our 14 years were a volital combination of my total lack of self esteem and her...

From sleeping wrong!!! That didn’t happen in my 20s.

The wife and I have been going through some turmoil recently. The enemy has commenced attacking us over things from long ago, something that causes great insecurity to her. Indirect or unknowing references to this just seem to come from everywhere, and it’s all started at once. I believe the...

The wife and I have been going through some turmoil recently. The enemy has commenced attacking us over things from long ago, something that causes great insecurity to her. Indirect or unknowing references to this just seem to come from everywhere, and it’s all started at once. I believe the...

I have been sober from alcohol for better than six years. But a lesser struggle with inappropriate contentography has crept up more than once. The first time was immediately after I sobered up (a couple months) and it was by far the worst. But I’ve had on and off trouble in the years since. I’ve been agonizing...

I struggle off and on with inappropriate contentography. I'm six years sober from alcohol but this just keeps coming back. It's something I've even hidden from my AA friends and I don't have a sponsor anymore. Mine went back out some time back. But this keeps raring back up periodically and is likely to cause...

for me anyway. It's been three weeks since the wife and I have "been" together. Most of our marriage has been twice a month on average. This is no where near enough for me. I've made this clear to her but I never ask for it. Any time I have through the years I've been treated like a pervert or a...

when I'm "with" my wife, sometimes I can't finish without I think gay sex. Not always mind you. But sometimes. Then comes the shame and guilt for giving in.

I have a sexual past that I'm not proud of. I had a very unhealthy attitude toward sex in my teens and 20s. Women, and later men were there for my amusement and I saw them all as sexual objects. This caused a lack of intimacy within my marriage for many years. The first seven years of marriage...

I am a married man. I'm happy in my marriage 75% of the time. I had a couple of homosexual experiences years ago, but felt the Lord delivered me from it. But still today I've noticed the urges come back with a vengeance when I'm feeling lonely, isolated, almost depressed. I get this way when my...

There comes new challenges. Adding to my "Love and Intimacy" topic, now a new problem I've not really dealt with before. Jealousy. I've never been a jealous man. My wife nor I was pure when we married, there were no secrets there. For 11-12 years, there were no problems. But as my understanding...

Thirteen years we've been married, and I finally understand what intimacy really is, what it was intended to be. It started on a getaway we had for our tenth, but it has really grown. I wasn't always a Christian. I was raised in a very legalistic (and hypocritical) church so when I got old...