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    Very Lonely.

    Thank you all, your replies have been very reassuring. A lot of you suggested a house cleaner. That would be great if we weren't so tight on money! No, for now, we just have to maintain it, even if it means letting the house go so we can relax... which is something we haven't don't all week :(...
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    Very Lonely.

    I am writing his late at night because I can't sleep and all I've been doing is crying. Husband is asleep in the other room. So I am a middle school teacher and my husband is working full time along with getting his master's at seminary. I just started my new job as an 8th grade English...
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    A godly woman

    Gill Douglass, I think we agree more than what you think :) I agree we are physiologically different and yes, men and women have different ways of thinking, and this gives us all the more reason why we should be a team and put each other first in our marriages. I would say our only major...
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    I love him, but I'm forbidden. Christian advice, please...

    Hi! I would love it if you could please read my advice. I have a lot to give you. First, I am the daughter of a mixed couple. I am 1/2 Puerto Rican, but my abuelo married into a Mexican family, so I have Mexican relatives (not blood related) but I have seen the dynamics of a hispanic family and...
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    Women becoming pastors?

    My parents are both pastors. My mom and dad. They build churches, lead people with love, and are both equally called to ministry. I am not going to argue with you since you are already convinced that you believe you're right. But I will tell you that ministry is no joke, and if someone pursues...
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    A godly woman

    I am going to play the other side of the field. Keep in mind I am expressing my understanding of my Nazarene theology, so obviously, there will be differences, but I am giving food for thought. God created Eve to be Adam's partner; she was created from his side as an equal. Being a partner does...
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    Good Christian Books about Raising a Family?

    Hello! My husband and I are not expecting any time soon, but it is not impossible next year or so we might begin the conversation about starting a family. I was thinking about getting a good Christian book that addresses all the questions and conversations you should have before starting a...
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    Husband's family is very hateful

    Hurt people will hurt people, I wish I could give you a hug, you are hurting so much. Both you and your husband. It is unfair and selfish of his family to cause so much destruction to your relationship. Maybe they are blinded by anger, their own self-righteousness, ignorance, or both, but...
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    Crohn's Disease and Sex

    Hello all--thought I would give an update. I've talked a while ago to my husband how I have been feeling, even suggested the possibility of something to "help us out", and he was responsive. I would say our sex is starting to pick back up, which I am very appreciative and happy for. My husband...
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    Crohn's Disease and Sex

    I wish that were true. the last time we had sex was two weeks ago. Before then, it was two weeks before that. I guess what I am trying to say is recently, in the past 30 days, we've had sex twice. Sorry for the confusion. I guess if you were look at the past 2 months it would average about 4...
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    Crohn's Disease and Sex

    Nothingimpossible, thank you for your candid and thoughtful answer. I do want to talk to my husband again, but it worries me to bring it up because last time I did, it became an argument. I might suggest other ways we can still be able to bond. It may not be traditional sex, but you're right, he...
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    What birth control do you use?

    Before I got married (just a little more than a year ago!) I started on Microgestin (low estrogen pill) 1/20 3 months before the wedding so the BC could kick into my system! And my Dr. was super awesome and made sure I wouldn't have my period around the honeymoon :) As far as symptoms, I've...
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    Crohn's Disease and Sex

    I am in need of help. I feel I have no one to talk to in regards of how I feel sexually disatisfied. I feel guilty for even saying this to an online forum to strangers, just because my husband can't help it. My husband has Crohn's disease. If you are not familiar with CD, it is a cruel...