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  1. pantingdeer

    hi

    I definitely would not ask her out.
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    Is it possible to be too ugly to get IRL friends?

    Im ugly too by the world’s standards. My own Dad even called me ugly. If you want friends as a Christian, then you need to look in the right places. Go to churches, worship nights etc. and meet people in common with yourself. I didn’t have any real friends for many years but I’ve met a few...
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    hi

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    Trinity theology

    Both positions hold that view.
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    Trinity theology

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    Would it be okay for a Christian to get cosmetic surgery?

    Do you think God would be disappointed with me for doing something like that? It was only to help me feel better in my own skin and not feel so self conscious all the time. I do understand though that this life is only temporary and so could I put up with my ugliness for this life? I guess so...
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    Would it be okay for a Christian to get cosmetic surgery?

    I’ve always been very uncomfortable with my appearance. I don’t look like a normal person and I’ve been bullied before for some aspects of my appearance - even my own Dad called me ugly to my face. This has been very hurtful as I know he meant it and I already believed it about myself. I would...
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    There is no love in me - how can I be saved?

    Should a saved person not care and love God and feel gratitude to Him? For me it feels like I lack these things. I lack them for everyone and not just toward God. I don’t think I would get emotional if even close family died. My grandparents died and it did not affect me at all which is not nice...
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    There is no love in me - how can I be saved?

    Thank you for your reply. Sorry I havent been active here for a few days so only seeing messages now. Maybe my definition of love is worldly but to me I think I should feel the love in my heart. I do not feel emotions in my heart toward my family nor to God and I don’t seem to appreciate them...
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    There is no love in me - how can I be saved?

    Thanks for your advice today. I don’t know if agree about the OCD stuff but for other things I think talking to someone has helped. I’ll pray that God works on my heart.
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    There is no love in me - how can I be saved?

    It is with my church. 3 year course.
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    There is no love in me - how can I be saved?

    Do you think I should try cancel the Bible diploma? Is it unsuitable for someone like me who is stumbling?
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    There is no love in me - how can I be saved?

    Okay. I did grow up at church though and so might be familiar with most of it. But maybe some things will encourage and comfort me.
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    There is no love in me - how can I be saved?

    I actually just sent him an email explaining my situation and how his video made me feel troubled. Maybe some day my question will be picked on his podcast and he can elaborate more.
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    There is no love in me - how can I be saved?

    I think mine does have one but I might have missed the start of it.
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    There is no love in me - how can I be saved?

    I didn’t realise in your former message that you were implying it could be him. I thought you were talking about me. About JP though, I would doubt very much that he is imposter as he clearly loves Jesus and is trusting him. I don’t know him personally but I you can tell he has fruit of spirit.
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    There is no love in me - how can I be saved?

    Maybe there is a new believers class on YouTube I can watch.
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    There is no love in me - how can I be saved?

    That is what I fear - being an actor/imposter and not truly being saved. I was meant to start a Bible diploma next month and have already paid. Maybe it is too soon for me and I should try to cancel it. I will keep on going and pray that God works on my heart. I will make that my daily prayer.