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  1. SgtBen

    Is flirting permissible when married?

    My question is this: Why even consider flirting with another when married? Who thinks of it? And why should we,as married men, even think of it? As a law enforcement officer, I have had many women try to flirt with me, offer certain favors, even partially disrobe to get out of a traffic...
  2. SgtBen

    Brett Kavanaugh's faith

    I did drink a bit when I was 19, and sort of had a necking relationship with a woman then. At 23, I was involved in a physical relationship with a woman, and again with another at 26. I am up for a promotion to lieutenant at my police department. Both the women are happily married and have...
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    Brett Kavanaugh's faith

    Interesting, duplicate posts.
  4. SgtBen

    Brett Kavanaugh's faith

    I had sex sort of once when I was a senior in high school. I also had sex twice with one lady while I was 19. You don't dredge up crap like this over 30 years ago, and just NOW come out? The man was a sitting judge for years. The women had plenty of time to come out with their allegations. Why...
  5. SgtBen

    Annoyed

    I have seen too many family issues in my career as a law enforcement officer. I have found there are two ways in which to deal with family issues. 1. Call law enforcement if it's really bad or ... 2. Call your local department of social services for help. If you have done both of these with...
  6. SgtBen

    Griping and Complaining = Shut Up!

    Thank you all. She is going to be home in just a few days, around the middle of the month!! She has shown no sign of rejection, her immune system, weak as it is, seems to be taking the transplant well. Thank you for remembering her in prayer. That's the strongest thing anyone can do besides...
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    LDS LDS How many gods are there?

    This link leads me to an LDS website. There is only one God, hallowed be His Name.
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    LDS LDS How many gods are there?

    While I will not go against any teachings of the Mormon Church, the teachings of a mere mortal Joseph Smith I believe is quite questionable. He actually re-wrote the Bible, put in line laws for Mormons as for the Doctrine and Covenants, and wrote The Pearl of Great Price. To be a Mormon, you...
  9. SgtBen

    Fiancé's business is unstable

    If you want an honest reply, if you are facing doubts, do some research. First of all, do you trust him? That's the first thing. If you do not trust him, leave. No one wants to live with anyone they cannot trust.
  10. SgtBen

    Fiancé's business is unstable

    I do apologize, but on there you will find help. You will find lots of help there.
  11. SgtBen

    Fiancé's business is unstable

    As I said, please go to Christian Advice. That may help you.
  12. SgtBen

    Fiancé's business is unstable

    Also your issues are best put into Christian Advice, perhaps that will serve you better. You will get better advice there.
  13. SgtBen

    Fiancé's business is unstable

    Of course. Everyone either goes with their heart, or they go with their brain. One way will to lead to success, and one way will lead to disaster. It is always a choice. I do hope you make a good choice. Praying for you.
  14. SgtBen

    Fiancé's business is unstable

    You must understand a business has to have a catalyst, and if not, it isn't good. Also, he is not married to you. Obviously he is failing and you must deal with that. Either you leave and find your own way, or stay,but I understand lies and deceit, however, he is failing. There is a choice to...
  15. SgtBen

    LDS Mormon leader: Nicknames for faith are 'victory for Satan'

    Pray for them. It is stupid to judge any church.
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    LDS Mormon leader: Nicknames for faith are 'victory for Satan'

    Pray for them. It is stupid to judge any church.
  17. SgtBen

    Why is there so much hate in fundamentalism toward Catholics and Orthodox

    The fact is, only the hate which is conjured up in sad minds and people who are consumed with anger and hate can only hate. Remember when you are consumed with hatred, only that comes from you. Anyone who hates needs to change their ways, come to Jesus for forgiveness, and turn their lives around.
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    Why is there so much hate in fundamentalism toward Catholics and Orthodox

    I am a Baptist. My dearest wife is a Fundamentalist. Some of our dearest friends are Catholics. At our wedding, although the Baptist pastor and the Fundie pastor presided over us, our dear friend, the Catholic priest, did lay his hands upon our rings and he was the one who said the blessings...
  19. SgtBen

    Pro-Life means sex creates souls?

    Obviously, when sex is between a man and a woman, and the egg is fertilized by the sperm, yes, I believe there is a soul that comes of a fetus, which in turn is a baby, a person, and it is up to the makers of such a beautiful soul as to how to deal with this, which is a person who has a soul...
  20. SgtBen

    dependency

    I have a gentler answer. First of all, sex comes waaaaaayyy down the list of priorities. You do not base upon a relationship of how great the sex is. First, it is fleeting, whether due to health issues or other junk. You know you're in a great relationship that will last when 1) you can talk...