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I don't think it is a good idea to have your fear of death pressure you into believing. Those are two different matters. Your fear of death is a psychological illness that needs to be treated by a therapist. The reason you are afraid is not because you don't believe in the afterlife. Not...

The OP does not seem to suffer from depression. Instead he seems to suffer from self-deprecation / low self-evaluation.

I find this argument false. God did not sacrifice his son for one person. He sacrificed his son for hundreds or thousands of billion people who would come to live on earth after his death.

It is a good thing you apologized to your friend. Relationships are important. And welcome to the forum.

I, too, have lived in sin in the past. But I do not tell myself that I absolutely need God's acceptance. It is not something that I can control. I believe one should not obsess over something that is out of one's control. I believe that God is not fond of me, either. I suspect that I am getting...

No, I do not suffer from depression. It is true that I am quite lazy and hesitate to try new things, but it is not like I am unable to put any effort in things that are beneficial to me. I am not a shut-in, either. I have a work place that is closed right now because of the ongoing crisis. It is...

@the one and only zero @Consolation Thank you both for the offer, but I am not looking for online friends. I already have a few, but they don't fill the void I feel... I admit that I was not happy about some posts here, and that might have resulted in me to "have an attitude that puts people...

Thank you for your reply! I feel like you are one of the few people who understand me. I never thought about raising a dog. It seems too difficult for me.

Haha, I always get that suggestion. And I try to get a therapist, but something always comes up, and I am unable to do therapy. Yes, maybe I will try to find one again. Good night...

I don't know what is the reason. Maybe I can change things. But I don't know how. I just wanted to talk about my pain. I do not really expect things will change. I do not really expect people to help me get out of this mess.

I was not exactly saying that to you specifically, but to everyone.

Since I opened a thread, I guess results are important. Of course, the most effective way is to think that I have the ability to change things. That things are not the way I want, because I did things the wrong way. But I am not perfect. I cannot stay motivated despite constant failure. I...

It is not an attitude. It is a fact. People do not stay away from me because of some attitude I have. Also, I am not an introvert.

There are things in this world where effort alone is not enough.

I meant that I lack the ability to befriend people. I never get close to people. We always stay strangers.

I miss having friends and loved ones. I don't want to live alone. I want to live with my parents in a big apartment. But my parents live in a country with 8 hours time difference. Maybe living with my brother would also be kind of nice, but he lives in a far-away city (about 8 hours train...

To be honest, I believe that God's will is that I stay alone and suffer. Suffer even more in the future.

Hello, I wanted to tell you about a woman I exchanged messages with the past few days. I got to know her through a website where you can find friends. This website sent a lot of emails which got on my nerves, but I did not unsubscribe from them because I spend about 69€ to be allowed to...

Sometimes it is not dependent on only ourselves whether a relationship can continue healthily. Sometimes the relationship is not only bad for ourselves, but bad for the the people we cling to, too. When they show clear signs of wanting to stay away from us, I believe it is better to respect...

I have read some of your past posts, and I noticed that you often say that people "should" behave a certain way, because they are Christians. When things happen that you don't like, you fail to accept reality as is. I think accepting reality is very important. People often do not behave the way...