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    Here's the Deal

    Very sorry things didn't work and you are going through a setback, but happy to see you're still on the forum. Hang in there, it will get better!
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    how do you pray for God's will?

    Sometimes I pray, "God, if it is your will, please grant me this request." Other times I beg: "Please, God, I really want this, help me make it happen." I usually don't get far with those two prayers. I've found it is best to take it day by day and to keep God with you as you go. Follow your...
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    Anxiety..

    I suffer from anxiety and depression as well. My experience started a little over 8 years ago, and while it has DRASTICALLY improved, I still have what I call "spells" or just bad days here and there. I take medication for both and while it's not my desire to do so, it is how I am able to...
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    do you ever wonder?

    Truthfully, no, I have not found the magic cure to help me cope with my single status. Reading your post was like listening to my own mind! I feel the same way. One thing that DOES help, is if I look for "God sightings" in every day. Today, for example, I was super tired when I woke up and I had...
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    Can a relationship make you CRAZY?

    As always, insightful and well said. :)
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    Can a relationship make you CRAZY?

    Thanks for the responses! Many of your insights hit the nail on the head. I think what I have learned from this is: 1. I give my heart away too easily, and I have trust issues. Not a good "qualities" alone, and definitely not good when combined. 2. I do not believe God has someone for...
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    do you ever wonder?

    I wonder and worry about this every single day. It's exhausting and I don't recommend it. I wish I could just turn it over to God and trust in Him, but I always take it back and worry more. I can tell you that worrying gets you nowhere. I can also tell you that as far as everything else in my...
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    Can a relationship make you CRAZY?

    I am just getting out of something that became very unhealthy for me towards the end and I'm wondering if anyone else experienced something similar, but ended up having a healthy relationship? It's hard to describe, but being my own worst enemy I created so many different stories in my head...
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    Can a relationship make you CRAZY?

    I am just getting out of something that became very unhealthy for me towards the end and I'm wondering if anyone else experienced something similar, but ended up having a healthy relationship? It's hard to describe, but being my own worst enemy I created so many different stories in my head...
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    Homesick/Is this really what adulthood is like?

    Yes, you will get there... You said it yourself: "Yeah, it took a good year to get to that point in Abilene..." It takes some time. Once you get adjusted, you will get to the point that you don't even notice. Promise.
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    Poll: If a man likes a woman...

    Haha...ok, so to revise my question. If a man likes a woman, he will pursue her and take the appropriate action to try and have a relationship with her? What I'm trying to get at here are these relationships that I keep falling into that go gray on me. Like maybe I talk to someone a lot, hang...
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    How long have you been single ?

    I've been single 75 years now... Okay, I lied. I've been single for almost 6 years now. I am not enjoying it. I really wanted to find someone to share my life with, but I am slowly giving up on that hope. Maybe it's just not in the cards for me, and I'm learning to accept that. It means God...
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    Poll: If a man likes a woman...

    True or false: If a man likes a woman and wants to be in a relationship with her, he WILL BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER... Annnnd go!!!
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    Days and nights, nights and days

    What do you do when you're trying to fall asleep at night?? I have my days and nights mixed up, which fortunately does not affect me at work as I work in the afternoon, but I would prefer to stop waking up at noon and feel like most of my day is gone. I try reading, playing games on the...
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    Where do you meet Christian girls?

    I'm doing two things with my single status right now: 1. Enjoying it and embracing the opportunity God has given me to grow during this time and 2. Opening myself up to new opportunities. I used to be very closed off - a now or never type of girl, but now I'm finding that putting myself out...
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    Goodbye

    Very bummed you are leaving. I enjoyed your posts. Best of luck to you in Colorado. Hopefully you'll pop on sometime and check in. God bless.
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    Decided to go for it...

    NEW UPDATE: It became clear tonight that it will not work out with the new guy. I'm a little bummed...not so much over him, but because I'm so tired of things "not working out" and then I have to remind myself it's all in God's timing, not mine. But there were a few things I learned: 1. It IS...
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    Decided to go for it...

    So update on this... It's almost 3:30 in the morning and I am just getting off the phone with the "new guy." This is the third night in a row we've talked. We even chatted via Skype for a little while. Annndd...I have a SMILE on my face!! Hard to believe...I didn't think there was another guy...
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    Why can't I develop feelings anymore?

    Flower89 -- A lot of people recommend the book "He's Just Not That Into You," for single women to read in these types of situations, but I can give you an even better reading. Mandy Hale is a Christian woman who has penned two books about her single life, bad relationships and moving on. The...
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    Dating noob

    Ahh, college................ Oh, sorry, got lost in a moment there :D ENJOY!!! College is a wonderful time in your life and the friendships you develop will be amazing and possibly life-long. Remain true to yourself and your morals and you'll be fine. The best relationships I've had started as...