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    Love towards a nonChristian girl?

    I would advice against that too. When you are in the company of people who make you question your faith, it is best to avoid them. It is human nature to be curious and from curiosity comes the want to experiment and try different things. Remember the first sin, it was deceitful words and...
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    Love towards a nonChristian girl?

    I applaud you for making the right decision and rather then looking on what you might be missing out, focus instead on what more you might gain when you find a person who shares all your beliefs and both of you can be much happier and blessed.
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    Contentions issue about men who visited prostitutes and the women who accept them.

    The thing is during the short time with this man, she said he was very open about preferring "more experienced women", had deviant sex including sodomy with her, and even suggested to her they try a threesome. The worse thing is she broke up with him only cos of his caustic personality rather...
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    Contentions issue about men who visited prostitutes and the women who accept them.

    TurtleAnne, I agree with a lot of what you have said however, I would like to go into more detail on some of the above points in relation to the argument I'm having with my friend. First off, the man in question has had more than a few visits with prostitutes, he has freely admitted to have...
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    Contentions issue about men who visited prostitutes and the women who accept them.

    I believe that even successful men have issues that relate to insecurity, they feel the need to show off their wealth and power by buying beautiful women to have sex with them. Unfortunately, I did not watch the film but either way, the point of needing greater and greater sexual deviancy to...
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    Contentions issue about men who visited prostitutes and the women who accept them.

    Thank you both for the replies, I believe things are such for humans, thoughts become action, action into habits, habits into character. Men who have been with a lot of women >40 women (most of them prostitutes) are by nature incorrigible. I would never be able to accept such a person as...
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    Contentions issue about men who visited prostitutes and the women who accept them.

    Hi, Please give me your views of this contentions between me and a friend. I am strongly against men who visit prostitutes in general and my friend too feels that prostitution in general is wrong. Our argument is about the women who still can accept these men and still remain in a...
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    feeling alone and depressed in the wole world

    What may I ask that you are suffering from please? It might not seem much but I hope that by sharing a bit more you'll get better and better.
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    Hello Everyone

    Tigger if I can make a request... larger fonts and some breaks in the sentences please? It's a bit hard to scan through your reply as it looks like a huge block of worlds. Thanks. My journey too has led me to read widely and to gather as much information as possible. I believe there is a...
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    Hello Everyone

    Rest assure I did not think for a moment that you were making light of anything and I do understand your good intentions. I merely wanted to convey my feelings and belief that it is very different for some people. I have heard from a lot of different people as to how they came to believe and...
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    Any one ever feel this sort of depression?

    I can say that being angry at God is normal, almost everyone at some point will channel their anger at God. Whether that anger is justified or not is another matter but I ask this... would it do you any good to be angry at him? If you believe he is the all mighty then seek his guidance and not...
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    desperate need for help. depression ruining my life

    I am sorry to hear of your suffering, believe me when I say I understand. Depression is a painful and evil process of self doubt, negativity and loathing and unfortunately, pills, counseling or even the love of family will overcome it. I prayed desperately when I was going to it and during a...
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    I wish God would just kill me.

    It's an unfortunate situation however, I will say this. I doubt God will give you a partner even if you are in desperate need of one. Unlike a lot of other people on this board, I'm a lot more pragmatic and less spiritual. If I am going to get a partner I'll go and get involved with...
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    Hello Everyone

    Thanks Pink Spider, I guess the fonts don't get much bigger huh lol!
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    Hello Everyone

    Nor will I burden you with such a task... it's background information nothing more.
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    Hello Everyone

    Perhaps, it is the case with you however, I have been patient for decades not years and so I don't have much faith anymore.
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    Hello Everyone

    I might private message you when I can so you might have a better understanding of my doubt. However, I believe I am justified to be skeptical and to have disbelief when truthfully I cannot recall one instance where God answered any of my prayers or gave me some comfort.
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    Hello Everyone

    Thank you Subdood however, in the past I was trusting but now I'm skeptical. Thank you for your blessings but what are they for please?
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    Hello Everyone

    Hi, I decided to join this forum because I find it difficult to get some of the answers to question in life. Unlike some of you who are genuinely glad to have found God and are here for companionship, I am here for completely different reasons... I'm here seeking the truth. I am a former...