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  1. Bobby H

    I want to spend more time here!

    I've had a membership here for years but I'm still a "newbie" because I didn't post a whole lot and I think I went for a couple of years without ever using this site. But in recent days I've come to realize that I need to be here! Even if I'm not posting or responding to what someone else has...
  2. Bobby H

    I need some encouragement

    Hello, I don't mean to be a burden on anybody here, but I could use some prayer and encouragement. I'm 42 years old, I've worked for the same company for 23 years, and I never figured out what to do with my life. I really would like to get out of where I'm working, but sometimes, part of me...
  3. Bobby H

    Do you live alone? If So, how do you spend your free time?

    I don't know who all is like me in the fact that they live alone. Some single people have roommates. Some are still living at home. Some have children. I'm one of the ones who has lived alone for the last ten years. I've lived in the same apartment all this time. I've worked 40 hours a week...
  4. Bobby H

    Board Games

    Anybody else a big fan of board games? What are your favorites?
  5. Bobby H

    A good or bad reason to join the ministry?

    For the last ten years or so (I'm 34 now) I have thought a little bit at a time about the ministry. For awhile I felt like God was calling me, and I was afraid and wanted to run from it. Then for awhile I felt like I wanted Him to call me, but I felt that I wasn't truly called. I don't know...
  6. Bobby H

    Staying In, not leaving the house much

    I've had a problem for years and years now. I don't get out much. Well, I guess I do and I don't. My problem is the fact that I'm tired of going out to places alone like I do, so I stay in. I try going to the mall, to the bookstore, grocery shopping, etc., and everytime I'm out I feel like...
  7. Bobby H

    Dating Websites

    Have you used one? What do you think of them? I'll give you my story real quick. They've been nothing but trouble for me. I click and click and click and click on women I'm interested in, but never once have I gotten a response of any kind from one. I clicked on one today to try to IM her, and...
  8. Bobby H

    I haven't dated in 7 years

    I'm just going to come out and admit that I have kind of a big issue going on in my life. I haven't been on a date in the last 7 years. I just kind of gave up in 2006 and I haven't been able to get back in when I've tried... every once in awhile I ask somebody out and get shut down. I'm not...
  9. Bobby H

    Dating Unbelievers

    First off, I want to say that this post is aimed directly at men, but women are more than welcome to chime in. How many of you guys out there, my Christian brothers, have gotten yourselves caught up with non-Christian women? Is it harder to date Christian women? Are they harder to find? To me...
  10. Bobby H

    Careers

    So, since we're all in our thirties here... has everybody settled on a career yet? I'm sad to say that I never figured out what to do with my life. However, I believe God will show me some things and get me going in the right direction sooner or later!