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Thanks again everyone. I've been in prayer pretty intensely for the past week or two and will continue to do so. Seems like the situation will change when that happens. Striking a balance between faking it till you make it and ignoring the person and feeling guilty... man there's nothing black...

Well, I've slightly brought up the issue with two very close friends of mine who are also co-workers. They haven't directly seen her being unfriendly/curt to me but they both have mentioned that she came off as standoffish and cold, and in one's case, she also treated him extremely coldly in a...

Thanks again everyone for their responses, it's been really encouraging to get other perspectives. This person in question is a female who is a few years older than me. I remember in the first week of meeting her that I tried saying hello and asking questions about the office, just to break the...

Thank you to everyone who responded, super appreciated. I think I have that inner tendency yes. I haven't spoken to people who know this person yet because well... - it'll probably come off as gossipy and probably not good for the office environment to ask personal questions about coworkers...

I've had this issue on my mind for a long while now, and I thought I could help myself by seeking the perspective of other believers. I find myself extremely bothered and confused about how to deal with people who are unfriendly/aloof. I'm 99% sure I haven't done anything wrong to this person...