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    Divorce advice

    I will have to look into that.. I'd be fine with that it would give my wife time to come around.. I know my wife's friend and her husband filed online and just agreed to the terms. Not sure how it has gone tho. I'll look up Indiana laws.
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    Divorce advice

    Check your inbox I'm gonna drop my email in there so I can see those docs... This is good info I didn't know all of this.
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    Divorce advice

    I don't trust her at all.. She wants to file online without an attorney, but wants me to relinquish full custody and she won't budge. I however have a schedule that has me working 7/14 days which means I'm off work and can care for my child. I'm trying to get this hammered out before attorneys...
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    Marriage Restoration

    My family is falling apart, my wife wants a divorce and im desperate to save it. She is an unbeliever so any prayers for her salvation would be awesome ( her name is Mandy ). I want our family and marriage to stay intact so if you guys would lift up this marriage with me id appreciate it. God...
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    Divorce advice

    Also i wanted to say thank you for lifting us up in prayer. This marriage is savable if god can just get through to her. Every ounce of me wants to restore this broken marriage. I ask anyone who reads this to lift up my marriage with Mandy and ask god to restore our family. God bless and...
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    Divorce advice

    I am trying really hard to hold myself together.. Ive lost 14 lbs in the past cpl months. My wife is so cold toward me, and the fact that she is still living here is making it very difficult. I pray everyday for her salvation and our marriage restoration, however she is an unbeliever so im not...
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    Divorce advice

    My prayers to god are always to save my family. Others tell me god can't work on unbelievers.
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    Divorce advice

    I've begged my wife to go to counceling, I even told her I get a cheap apartment so we could seperate and try to rebuild this marriage. But she refuses to even try and work on it. I gave this to God and have asked for some peace.. He has given it to me. Also my wife is an unbeliever so all I can...
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    Divorce advice

    I work full time just 12 hr days.. So I'm not squeaking by. I want what's best for my child as well, and I don't want this divorce. However it's gonna happen. We just started talking about arrangements today.
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    Divorce advice

    Wife says to trust her.... I want joint physical since I only work 7of14 days anyway. She says she won't let that happen. So i figure she will just try and paint a negative pic of me to the judge. Anyways anyone been through this I could use some advice.
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    Repentance/adultery

    I am growing in my walk everyday, things i thought were not possible yesterday seem possible today. I do long for a godly marriage, if divorce happens and remarriage never comes about god will change my desires.. However my hope still lies that my current marriage will survive.
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    Repentance/adultery

    I hope he saves this one... But I believe god forgives the truely repentant and I know I've received his forgiveness.. The pain of what I caused will serve as a reminder the rest of my life.
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    Repentance/adultery

    I have been studying marriage ever since I recommitted myself to Christ. I was unfaithful to my wife ( never had intercourse ) but there was a lot of in appropriate sexual contact. I feel his has called me to look deep into the biblical meaning of marriage. Thus why I keep bringing this up...
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    Sound advice

    I have been deeply moved.. My daughter was upstairs with my wife and I, she told us she had a dream that they didn't live here any more because mommy and daddy split up.. Now we don't fight at all, we only talk when she is in bed. My 5 yr old loves Jesus her and I share that bond, I know my wife...
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    Sound advice

    Many believers believe that I'd you repent from your faults that you can remarry. Personally I'm gonna hold out for my wife, god is in control and I just need to be patient.
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    Sound advice

    You know what man I don't want to date either.. I love my wife, but knowing what you just told me it makes things a little easier.. Best of luck to you man:) Thx again..
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    Sound advice

    Have you started dating since the divorce? I fear I will have to be alone because of the reason my Marriage is over.
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    Sound advice

    Wife says I probably can't change her mind about divorce.. So I guess it's time to suck it up and figure out what's next.. Really odd she seems happy about it. I made big mistakes So I guess you live and learn, it's just mind blowing that she is so unwilling to try and work this out. Heck when...
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    Sound advice

    Lol i know right... Im so confused as to how i got myself into this situation. Im so glad this is in Gods hands.. I obviously cant figure this out.
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    Sound advice

    I have been told this before many times.. I read the bible and struggle with the meanings... Ive always thought what Jesus meant was that if you were not saved then you could not remarry. Its all very confusing to me.. I did sort of commit adultery so thats why im so confused.